Amazing

Hello there new to this site, but not new to these kinds of exercises. Been doing them for a little over a year along with taking penis enlargement pills and when I started I was 6 inches long erect and 5 inches girth. And now, though not huge, I have made it up to 7 1/2 in length and 6 1/2 in girth with alot of hard work... and had some great comments and even better sex.

Let me tell you about what happened one day I was all done working out at the gym and I was going to meet a friend of mine at a sports bar watch a football game and have a few beers so I just got there and I was standing a few feet off the bar sipping my beer when this really cute and very sexy black girl walked in. She was with a black gentlemen so I continued to just watch the game and they walked by and we're standing right in front of me waiting for their drinks from the bar, so as they we're in front of me I was checking her out a little and she was "hot", very petite but a great body and very nice boobs. Anyway I'm watching the game and her occationally and then all of a sudden she does something and loses her balance and is falling backwards and while falling she reaches back for whatever to catch herself and her hand catches my crotch and she grabs my cock.

It was unreal well she rights herself and says how sorry she is and as they get their drinks she says to me "impressive". After that I found my friend and joined him at a table and then not to long after this girl and her guy sat down at a table right next to us... And as her guy goes for more drinks she again said sorry but said it very nice though. Moving forward again after a few hours of drinking and getting louder and wilder she occasionally reach under the table and brush up against me and a few times put her hand right on my cock.... I was going nuts...She would also keep looking down at my crotch and by now I had a raging hard on... and one time when her date went for more beer she reached under the table and grabbed my cock and started stroking it under my shorts. I was dying...

Well they finally got up to leave and I looked over and saw that she had left a note that said her name and her cell No. and it said "call me". Well I stayed a while more and I called her on the way out.. and she answered and I said hi and she got all excited then she asked me if I was still there and she said she lived close by... and I said wanna come back? and she said hell yeah..... So she did and I saw her and I waved her over to my car and she climed in and we talked for a few minutes and she told me the guy she was with was her soon to be x and he was still trying she said he was a dude sexually and his cock was not that big and it was like a pencil... Then she said I know white guys hear all time how black guys have the big dicks and everyone else is just little... She said "Don't believe it" Most are all talk until you pull their pants down....

Then she just changed gears. She told me "you know what turns me on is watching a long fat white cock going in and out of her".... I said wow really she said oh yeah then she started rubbing my cock again and it was already hard as it could get... Then she pulled it out and was just going crazy with it...She said "What lovely huge thick cock you have" she was stroking it with both hands and sucking it like she was
starving to death... Then she just hoped up and strattled my cock and she was soaking wet and started riding my cock furiously. She moaned big time when it was all the way in. She was a tiny girl. She came in about 30 seconds and keep humping my cock. It was unbelievable and then she came again and then just hoped off and started sucking my wildly. She said she wanted me cum all over her and boy did my cock shot a lot of cum deep in her mouth and she loved it and more came out on her body.. She drained my cock and kept sucking and licking... then she stopped and said this is why I'm not going to get back with my soon to be x because of big very thick cocks like mine and she had to just be honest and that white ones REALLY turn her on...

Well the story goes on from here but she was a little wild for me to keep seeing though we fucked many times after.

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Renee day

I've been with different guys since i was 12 and each guy was different in size. I had guys about 4-6 1/2" long normal lenth even at that age and all through my life heard about size and how it made such a differnce.

Also being so small I thought maybe I couldnt handle a big one. But after hearing my friends talking about it so much, I felt like less of a woman if not trying one.

I worked for my friend's dad at a sub shop and one afternoon I took notice at the front of his pants. It looked like a snake was coiled up in there. I was so turned on i couldn't take my eyes off of him. A few days later I approached him and was flirting with him all day.

When he was in the back counting out the drawer I sat next to him making it obvious that a was looking at his cock. He looked at me and asked what I was looking at. I told him I noticed he was hard. He laughed at me telling me he wasn't hard. I said "no way your lieing". He laughed and went on counting. I made it obvious what I was looking at his cock and smiled and licked my lips. He said "What do I have to prove it or some thing". I said "yeah I don't beleive you" he said "Well I would, but my wife and daughter would kill me" I said "I would never tell them. I'm not into getting my ass kicked"

He smiled and said "Pull em down and look at it yourself". As he stood, I wrestled fast taking them down. "Wow!" was all I said and took his cock in my mouth. "Dam, that thing got so big and thick" 9 1/2" around and 2 3/4" across the top "confirmed by eye measuring".

I jumped on the table and pulled him with my legs into me. I was supprised how I took every inch of him in my small body. He is the best sex I had ever. Later when I got drunk I told my friend what me and her dad did. The first thing she said was "Welcome to the big cock club" before I even told her about the size "hmm " ;) I've had sex with him to many times to count. Now I know how she got into the club lol.

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Hairless

I am 32 years of age and my erect penis is very short by your data at 4 1/4 inch x 2 3/4 girth. My wife has read all of the info on this page and told me that until I get larger she will keep all of my body hair shaved off. She has a few toys that make me look like a child in penis size so that I can see her point. the longest toy that she has is 9 inches long thats double the size ofmy self and one more that is 6 inches long and that one also makes me look like a small child so until my penis gets to an average size I will be hairless and she will take me to public swiming pools wearing a white swiming suit and chancing infront of real men.....I hope this works I get so tired of being made fun of all the time just for having a very small and hairless penis.

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Lisa

Does size matter? i never thought so in the past. i was with 8 guys before i got married at age 26. the largest of the 8 guys was around 6" in length, very average acording to everything i have read. i met my husband around age 24 and got married 2 years later. my hubby's penis was very small, about 4 3/4" when erect, and rather slim. we had sex a lot and he was only able to bring me to an orgasm while doing oral on me. his penis was always sliping out and nevr was able to penetrate me deep. i never really thought much about it because when i was with the men before hubby i was young and it was more just having sex than making love...a lot of inexperienced maen as well.

Well anyway after 4 years hubby and i had problems and got a divorce. now at 30 i was singele again. i dated a few guys at first, nothing serious...i wasn't really ready yet. i finally got serious with a guy and had sex with him...his penis was below average and wasn't any better tan my x hubby was. i was really starting to think that was what to expect as far as a mans penis size. we dated for a few months and it ended mutually.

A couple weeks later i when to dinner with a guy from work and we hit it off. we started dating and after a few weeks we started to get serious. one night after going out we were back at my place nd we started to fool around a bit. as i removed his pants and took one look at his penis i almost died!! his penis was about 6" flacid and so thick!! i could barely get my hand around it. my panties were instantly wet as i performed oral on him...after staring at for a while...lol when he was fully erect it was 9 1/2" long, the girth not shure exactly, but when i wraped my hand around it my fingers couldn't touch!!

We had sex for hours that night. when he entered me it was very difficult at first, he had to ease it in till i got used to him. i was so tight from never being stretch in that way. i must have had 3 or 4 orgasms within the first 5 minutes. the way his penis stretched me was amazing. the sensations that i never felt before were awsome, and the depth he took it too had never been hit before. it was the most amazing sexual experience i have ever had.

Well we are still together and i plan to be with him for a long time!! i know can easily say that size definatly matters in a big way!!

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ShortmanBigwang

Well, I'm a 23 year old military dude. I was always self conscious about my penis size and testicle size. I'm a rather short guy 5'5". I have had sex with about 15 women and they all tell me I have an amazingly huge penis for such a short guy, I thought it was one of those optical illusion things you know like I am a short guy so average may look huge on me?

So anyways after hearing all these compliments from all these women I still wasn't satisfied about my man down below and I measured my guy. I was surprised as hell when he measured out to be 7.75"!!! I could'nt beleive what I was seeing so I tried a different ruler and it was the same, I was shocked in dis-belief!!!. I am not sure of the girth but I can tell you its a hair bigger than the carboard tube inside a roll of toilet paper because it would'nt fit. In my eyes size does not matter as long as your around 4-7 inches.

Like I said I have been with alot of women and every single one, not one exception, have told me that it felt amazing, but it hurt them so bad they could'nt walk or sit down the next day. It's awesome to know you have a huge penis but it sucks when the woman says there is no way they will have sex with you again because it hurt them so bad. So in my opinion 4-7" is plenty, anything over that is useless. I look like some huge penis, huge testicle circus show because my testicles are large as well, there a little bigger than golf ball size.

I like myself I just wish I was a little taller because women don't just look at penis size, I have had so many women turn me away because of my height, so what I do in a situation like that is inform them that big things come in small packages and they usually laugh until I drop my pants.

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Feeling Inadequate

My dick is so small, I can put on a woman's G-string or thong, and still have room, is or was the consesus at my workplace. I'm almost 5 and a half inches hard and though my balls are big, it makes my dick look even smaller. Almost every woman I've been with has always commented in our very short time together "how small I was". I've been humiliated by many women not all, but by most. Since I'm not a bad looking guy, 5 feet 11 inches and 180 pounds I don't have a problem meeting them but it's keeping them that is the problem. They tell me I have a great personality, give great head but, it's my small dick that is the problem.I can live with the 5 and a half inches but I also lack girth, about the circumference of an average thumb.

I had to leave one place I worked because the women there started calling me emabarrassing names...like "pin dick". "no dick", "dickless" and I guess because I had dated of of my co-workers, the rumor started and when I finally complained to my boss, she just laughed it off and told me to "just live with it" and asked me if it was true?!! I couldn't believe it!!!

One day while at work, we had a sales meeting and we had missed our projected sales forecast for the month. We were all being chastised in a meeting and one of the women in an attempt to lighten up the atmosphere in the room blurted out.."let's get Dave to jump up on the table and do a strip for us, that should give us all a good laugh" and everyone started to laugh, even my boss. Feeling so humiliated, I just got up and left the room and the company for the last time.

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Bucefalo

I wish to share with you gus and gals my recent experience. I am 42 year old latin guy with a very good sex CV. My cock is quite average (6in) but I've always had great self-confidence because I have been able to bring my partners to climax most of the times.

Recently I falled with a chinese girl and we had few torrid sex sessions during which she moaned and screamed like crazy, but she never got an orgasm. She told me that it was her well know problem, nothing to do with my skill and we promised each other to try together to find the way.

Recently she got a rough and direct proposal of "having fun together" from a handsome brit guy very cocky and self-confident. She told me that and we laughed together to the stupid arrogance of the brit guy.

But in our jokes he was coming back again and again up to the point that I told her to feel free to "benchmark" the quality of my sex by trying a sex session with the brit.

She took my advise seriously and she gave it a try. She honestly informed me straightaway after the intercourses. Obviously I asked what was the feedbak; she answered "extremely boring". I wanted to know more and I asked her why. She said no foreplay, just a tremendous banging in all the possible positions. Then I asked if she cum or not. A cold shower fell on my head. She told me "more then once". To my question on how was it possible, without foreplay and without the minimum care and attention, she said that it was depending on the position (doggy) which provoked a sudden, overwhelming orgasm. This answer wasn't satifactory to me because we tried that position many times and for long duration without any result. Eventually she confessed that the depth of the penetration was different (the brit went deeper then what I ever reached) and that made the difference.

I was furious and depressed. Probably one or two inches were separating me form the possibility to make my gal cumming. To console me she made it worse "cummin is not everything, dear. I prefer you because anyway you are caring, loving and polite"

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littlePeter

About babies and vagina size. My wife has given birth to two very large babies (10lb and 10lb 10oz). Her vagina is definitely much looser as a result. I am sure that regular Kegels would tighten her up some but nowhere near her original size.

After denying for years that size matters she finally admits that it does feel better when I use a cyberskin penis extension.

I am currently doing PE exercises and they do work. I have seen very quick gains in length but not yet in width. The key is to be consistent (4-5 times per week). Measure every two weeks and keep a graph, so that you can see your progress! Good luck.

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Cara

Size does matter. I recently started dating a really nice guy with a really small dick (less that 5"). I have sex with him, and I cum, but it's nothing like sex with the other guy I'm seeing, who has, and I swear it's true, a 10" dick. He stretches me and fucks me so hard that I can't stop cumming. So, the nice guy takes me out and romances me, and I have sex with him, but the guy with the big cock is the one I want.

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Mixi

Of course size matters! I was married for 15 years to a man with a less than average size cock according to your data.His was less than 6 inches, we measured it once at 5.75 inches. Cannot recall his girth but it was not substantial. Before him I was with a couple of larger men and I did find them more satisfying as I was able to orgasm with them in me much easier than my former husband. I was young then and less experienced. While married we, or just I, found ways to satisy my needs besides the old in and out. Well let's say for many reasons our relationship fell apart,one of the reasons was, of course, lack of interest is sex, not only because of his size but also his stamina!
Since divorced I have met and fallen in love with a man whose penis is in the top 80 percent or so based on your data, his cock is 7.25+ inches long and has a girth of 5.75 inches. When we make love I orgasm many times just from him being inside me and it is wonderful! He also has staying power and can control when he comes. I have a feeling it has something to do with his confidence that just his size can satisfy me. So yes, size makes a huge difference as far as I am concerned!

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Copenhagen

Bigger is better
I wrote for two hours and hit the wrong button and it's all gone so now i'll say this.

My wife (is awesome) has brought me out of depression, my self is 6"EL X 5"EG she has always maintained my size is fine and complains when i hit her cervix, she also gets a little pissed off when I bring the subject up(long story, old girlfriend) I talked her into BOB (battery operated boyfriend) 8"EL X 6"EG and we use him fairly often, once in a while both at the same time. there is no question a woman wants to feel full.

My advice to everyone, use what ever is at your disposal, I get really turned on by the thought of fisting because of the pleasure i think it should bring her but she complains later it was too much. My fist is 9"EG (too much?) and i've only succeded completely once but i know that she gets off a lot faster when i go from two to three of four fingers. also note she has never orgasmed vaginally no matter what we have tried, i just make certain she orgasms clitorally unless she says no. If your woman needs more than your whole arm then she will need to find her own way as we have to do also.
As far as pregnancy goes, the vagina is designed to take back it's original shape and i believe it did for us. with bob it's a little loose imediatly after removal so change positions as a little time passes it will soon tighten and besids even loose feels good just not the same good.

To those women out there and you know who you are, try blaming yourself for a change, there are exercises like keegal that help orgasms for you and there are also a set of balls with your name on them. you'll find the balls at your local adult store, the idea is to hold them in your vagina throughout your day or at least as long as possible to strengthen your vagina so you can feel him.

To those of us that are depressed, I always thought if the world does not want me then instead of suicide, I'm sticking around just to spite the world. Please keep up the fight, surviving it is well worth it.

Keep in mind guys the brain is the bodys largest organ (perhaps not true for everyone according to some of these comments 11"?) make good use of it and find other ways to pleasure the love of your life.

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Small dick asian

My penis size is about 5" when fully erect. I mend my love relationship over eight months but it all takes just one night to lose her to a another guy who got bigger than my penis. I had never lost a girl to a big dick fellows before but finally it happens to me. A guy just took her away from me over night, after a night clubing with her. I guess this could be the worst insult can any guy could face in his life. After my experience, I reliazed that size really really does matter guys!

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Benjamin

Does size matter to women? Yes and No

Over the summer, (we were only 16 that time), I had a GF and despite her age, she liked sex. She wasn't a virgin and I was(still am). So I went as far as I could without having sex (not because of my morals or anything, but it was a camp with supervisors and everything). We made out, I fingered her, licked her breasts, she gave me hand jobs (not literally a hand job because my pants were still on, but you get the idea).

So one day were sitting across from each other. She puts her foot(shoes off) in between my legs and starts to rub my dick with her feet. She asks if I even feel it since I'm not moaning or anything, and I say no and make up the excuse that my pants were too big. And she goes "ya, if ur dick wasn't so small". It didn't bother me at first, cause I knew I had a small dick. But later that day she said "if we had sex, would I even enjoy it?". I didnt know the answer so I played it off and said "is that all u care about?"

So if ur girl likes sex, then yes size matters if shes a good GF (which I realize I had now, but didn't at the time), she won't care and she'll stay with u.

But just to be safe, start these exercises.

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Kelly

I am 26 year old married woman, my husband is 21 and erect his penis is about 8" long 5.5" around and yet still I must say the man attached to the penis is more important than the penis attached to the man.

While knowing that he has that monstrous cock in his pants is very arousing and sexy to me, I would love him no matter what size he was. I remember the first time we were about to have sex he walked out of the bathroom in his boxers. he never had any extremely large bulges or anything in his pants so I expected him to be about average. He walked over to the bed and I was gonna pull down those shorts and suck on him till he was hard. Boy was I surprised when that thing flopped out. I still proceeded to blow him till he got nice and hard.

I was honestly a little afraid it would hurt at first, but he was very gentle, kissing and caressing me and not trying to do anything too rough. He didn't even try to get it all in until I told him to go deeper. I'll admit being filled and stretched is nice but in my opinion the person is more important than the penis.

Do I like it that my husband has alot of confidence because of his gift? Yes, but I like the fact that he doesnt brag or act like God-Incarnate even more. Do I Love being filled by my husband,sucking his big cock and seeing the end result(It's one hell of a big load)? Yes, but I love the fact that during sex he considers me over himself and does everything he can to make me orgasm, and also the fact that he is gentle and makes everything the way I like it.

Love is more important than penis size, find your special someone and it wont matter how big, or small, they may be!

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Javacode

I think size is very important to women, but most aren't willing to admit it. That's why I intend to start this great program soon.

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Lisa

I always thought my hubby's penis was average in size. Our sex has always been OK. There are a few positions we try and can't seem to make work because his penis is not quite long enough. That said, I didn't think anything of it, like I said I thought he was average in length. Well last summer we wen't on a vacation with a bunch of friends that we both worked with up at a friends lake house. One night we all decided to go swimming naked. There was around 10 girls and 10 guys. I noticed that the guys were quite bigger than my hubby, all of them and some a lot bigger.

I was only with a couple of guys before the hubby so I never seen many nude guys in person. I was so excited by this and found that I couldn't take my eyes off them and i was very aroused!! Most of the men were larger flacid than my hubby was erect!! Anyway, after that weekend I was very curious about penis size and mesured my hubby, his penis is 4 1/2" when erect. I now know he is well below average and I'm starting to wonder what i might be missing. I have never cheated and don't think I could, but I find myself fantasizing and a lot more now....Any other girls in the same boat as me?? What do you do?? Any ideas??...Lisa

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Peter

This is a great forum, and I want to add my experiences and hope they will be of interest to others. First off I am lucky enough to be well endowed with a 8 1/2" long cock with 6 1/2" girth. But like most here wouldn't mind a bigger one and feel that my wife of 16 years could certainly take more as she has always easily accomodated me. Not length though, as when fully erect I can't get the last half inch or so in. In fact I have never had sex with a woman who could take the whole length (and thats about 30 women). Long ones are certainly visually impressive and I have received many compliments as to my size and some women have obviously been really turned on by that aspect. Not all though and I can echo the sentiments of others that some women can't (or won't) take it. Vaginas definately come in different sizes (not that my wife will agree with this thought).

Funnily enough my wife is one who has never really been into this big cock admiration thing. I have had partners who are and that has been great for the ego but you can't build a relationship on that (though I admire and am turned on by the size queens amongst the ladies). So too much length can be a draw back when it comes to intercourse if the woman (like my wife) likes to experience hard thrusting with the mans pubic bone banging against the area around the clitoris. So anatomy comes into it and everyones different. Girth, now that different, my wife once said 'if its thick enough to satisfy it too thick to suck' while giving me a bj. Incidently my wife is experienced having had about 40 men but I don't know too many details about the cocks, most she claimed were small but the one particular one she has mentioned had a flat triangular shape and probably had a girth of about ten inches at the base which she could take. We don't see much discussion of unusual shapes here but she said that she had another like it but this was smaller. I don't know about the thicknesses of other cocks she has had, I suppose I ought to ask her. However she once said the best sex she had was with a guy with a small cock (that the pubic bone thing I assume).

I should also say sex is about a lot more than intercourse to me, I like to give a lot of oral to a woman first. If they are well aroused then my endowment doesn't seem a problem.

So I am tempted to try the girth exercises but should talk to my wife first I think. I will keep posting.

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Maniaco Predicador

Hi,

I am 5 1-2 and would love any girl considering these small, to meet me, I will make you come at least 3 times before I even get erected. Then I will make u come 3 more times. I am confident because I know what ladies need, in life, and bed.

Regards,

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Michael

Let me tell you my experience with SIZE. I am 42 years old and have been happily married now for 21 years. I have always wondered if my wife was experiencing the same joy and fulfillment out of sex that I had been receiving from her. I just recently found the answer last summer. Let me explain.

Our sexual encounters went from an average of once a week to maybe twice a month. I started to like late night TV more and more, and found myself sitting on the family room couch, instead of snuggling up to my wife in bed and trying to slip my hand under her bra to "start" something.

Now I am up to what happened last summer. I had taken my wife to Chicago to celibrate our 20th wedding anniversary. We did what usual tourists do, and what guys do to spoil their wifes on a special anniversary. I took her shopping, took in a broadway show, went out to four-star restaurants, etc.

While at one of these restaurants, I had to excuse myself to go to the mens room. While standing at one of the urinals, a nice looking black gentleman started to use the urinal next to mine. Now I am not in the habit of looking at other men while in the mens room, but what caused me to glance in his direction, out of the corner of my eye, was that he was standing about 6 inches to a foot further away from the urinal than I was. During this awkward sideways glance, I happened to notice that he was standing that far back because his penis was about 6 to 8 inches long and just as thick, and this was in a flacid state. I thought to myself, what a lucky guy.

On our walk back to our hotel, I told my wife about the guy in the mens room and the amazing size of his penis. She at first laughed and kidded me about checking out other guys in the mens room, but I told her that any guy would probably give up ten years of his life to have a monster-sized cock. We continued to discuss penis size and if size was really as important to women as it is to men. She told me that she couldn't speak for other women, but for her it was the feelings of love for her partner, (me) that got her excited during sex and not so much the emphasis on the size. I at first thought that was really sweet and when we got back to our hotel room we had our usual great sex.

During the long train ride home, our conversation once again turned to penis size, with my point being that how can you judge the importance of penis size if I am the only man you have had sex with. (We gave each other our virginity at 18.) My wife reacted with disgust, "What do you want me to do, sleep with the man from the mens room last night to see if you are fully satisfying me?" She reassured me that I make her orgasm, and it feels good and so on and so forth.

About a week later, I was surfing the internet and came across an advertisement for an adult book store and sex toy shop. One of the advertised products was a very large and life-like dildo, modeled after a porn star. This thing was 10 inches long and as thick around as my wrist, matching what I would say would be the size of the mens room guys cock if it was fully erect. I let my curiosity get the best of me and ordered it as a surprise for my wife.

It came in about a week, and when I showed it to my wife, she was at first a little angry that I had spent over $50 bucks on something so "useless". I ended up putting it in the closet so none of our kids would find it.
About 2 weeks later, during one of our sexual warmings up to, my wife got a little more into it than usual, I mentioned the dildo in the closet, and asked her again if she wouldn't like to at lest try it out. She hesitated, but said, "Okay, but if it starts to hurt I don't want to see it again." I hurriedly got it down and slowly started by rubbing the head of it around her clit, while sucking on her tits. This being with her laying on her back on the bed. She slowly started moving her hips around in a circle like I had never seen before, and softly moaning. This soft moaning grew in volumne until it was a full groan with her hips slowly rising up off the bed to meet the head of this monster cock/dildo.

I was totally amazed at what I was witnessing. My usually reserved and sexually shy wife, was actually writhing around on the bed like I had never seen before, and it was really turning me on. My penis was again at a diamond hardness that I had last experienced a decade earlier. Let me just say that the cat couldn't scratch this thing, and my wife was just warming up.

She began whispering to me between breaths to "Put it in...put it in." I applied a little more pressure at the dildos base and balls and slowly let the massive head of the cock spread her lips and enter her pussy. She let out a gasp and grabbed the back of my head and hair and forced my face in closer to her right breast that I had been sucking on. With her free hand she slowly started to massage her belly and hips, with an occasional brush with her hand down to her pubic region, where I distinctly felt her fingers gently brush up and around the now wet head of the cock.

The dildo to my surprise slowly started to disappear between her now glistening pussy lips, little by little, inch by inch, without me really applying any further pressure. It was her pussy actually pulling the cock into it with each thrust of her hips. She had also spread her legs wider and was now gasping for air like she was running a hundred yard dash.

I had to take a look at what was happening to my wife!! I pulled myself up from her chest and sat up to get a better view. She surprisingly obliged me. She lifted her feet up off the bed and spread her legs in an almost splits position, with her knees bent. This gave me a view that I had only had when she was giving birth. I continued to hold the base of the dildo, but just to steady it. She was supplying all the energy. She continued writhing around and the cock was now fully inside of her, clear up to the fake rubber balls. I wished I had the video camera going to record this for my own pleasure. Her right hand was now tightly grabbing the headboard with a death-grip, and her left hand was now rotating from massaging her tits and belly to caressing the stiff, thick, rubber cock that was plunging in and out of her wet pussy. I had never seen my wifes pussy so wet before. It was literally running down on the sheets and forming a small puddle under her butt, and with each stroke of this massive tool, it was just pulling out more juices with its over-sized head.

I was so excited, I didn't want this to ever stop, and with my wife groaning under her breath, "Don't stop, don"t stop," I continued with more enthusiasum, and started pumping the full 10 inches fully in and out, from tip to base, gaining some speed to match her thrusting hips rising up off the bed.

She started to verbally cuss and swear under her breath, like I had never heard before. Most of it was incoherent babel, it was if she was speaking in tounges. I understood some phrases like, "fuck me..fuck me hard...fuck my little cunt. Now she is never one to swear, nor have I EVER heard her use the word.. "cunt". Ever! Where was this coming from?? I seriously ask you. Does anyone have an answer?

This episode was making me so horny, that I had to be more involved. I came up to her chest again and was going to start sucking some more, but she grabbed my face and said, "I want your cock in my mouth." HOLY-CRAP!!! What was happening! She grabbed the dildo out of my hand, and slid off the bed. She instructed me to lay down near the edge. I did so. She bent over at the waist and began sucking me off with her mouth and one hand, and with her other hand she inserted the dildo between her thighs and into her pussy. She sucked on my cock like never before. She was sucking on it like it was made of ice and she was dieing of thirst. Her other hand was busy pumpimg this huge fake cock into her dripping "cunt" as she was now referring to it.

It amazed and confused me that this zucchini sized rubber object had somehow released this inner sexual beast that I had so often wanted years and years earlier. Has anyone out there ever experienced this?

This position continued until I couldn't take it anymore and exploded all over myself in amounts of semen that would choke a horse. I was spent, but she was now just fully warmed up. She wanted to try it doggy style, so I helped her back onto the bed and into position. I again slowly inserted the giant cock into her from behind while she started rocking back and forth to met its thrusts. All she was doing verbally now was giving off this low moaning grunt like something primeval. Her thrusts backward started to become stronger and stronger, and was nearly knocking me over. I had to brace myself up against the headboard to meet her movements. She went faster and faster until her whole body began shaking like she was having a seizure...

So from my story, you guys can draw your own conclusion whether size matters!!!

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Shunned

I just lost my last girlfriend and she started dating a black guy. I'm white...halfway decent to marginally-acceptable length i'd say. Every time I talk to her, she always talks about how much he does her better, which hurts me since I dated her for YEARS and she was my first love. I now have no confidence in myself and am embarrassed to the point to where I don't wanna have sex with anyone until I finish up with these pills I've ordered and have a good length (somewhere between 7.5-8.5). I just wanna make sure that if I get left again, it's not for the same reason again.

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Mindblower

Listen up guys! If you really want to make a chick cum follow these instructions, and you'll see that it doesn't take the worlds largest dick to be satisfying to all women.

I have a 6.5 inch penis, girth seems relatively normal, and this routine seems to always work for me when I get with a new girl. A lot of women are equally as uncomfortable about their bodies as we are about our dick's. If you make a girl feel really good about her naked body, she'll reciprocate. Just don't over do it with the accolades, then it seems contrived.

Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay! You can have a footlong for a dick and I'll guarantee that if you don't know what you're doing with it then you're sunk. If you have a small penis (under 5 inches erect. Don't listen to these fables of most guys being longer than 6 inches. LIES!!!!) grind on her clit and keep your hands and lips busy on the rest of her body, and don't be afraid to do a little dirty talk in her ear. If you focus on just her genitals guess what she'll be focusing her attention on you. When a girl fingers herself to orgasm, she doesn't have an eight inch finger! So use your cock like a sexual massage tool on that clit boys. That trick works with any size dick.

Remember that self-confidence is golden in the game of sex. If you act timid when it's time to get down to business, she's not going to give you that favorable response. Tell her that you know you don't have the biggest cock in the world, but it still works. If you ravage her in bed, you can make her forget about the whole dick size crap. Keep your whole body in good shape; girls get off on nice asses, legs, and chests on a dude as much as we do on them, and try to be mentally stimulating to that girl as well as sexually. Very few women are totally preoccupied with male endowment so don't sweat it too much. How many girls with big breasts are really good in the sack. I used to love big breasted women and now I prefer a good ol' B cup maybe a C as compared to a D or DD. It's usually all about asthetics rather than size. The only ones so taken up with size are men...! We totally psyc ourselves out about this topic. I'm not saying that some guys aren't smaller than others, I'm just saying don't get to wrapped up in this.

This might be the most important thing that I hve to say, that will change a lot of your opinions on penis size. Some men are just naturally longer when they aren't erect. They can measure like 6 inches even when totally flacid. Most other guys are what I like to call growers. When they aren't erect their dick can get so shrivelled that it can look like an acorn. But when they're fully erect they can still hang with the big boys. Thats why you almost never see male porn actors before they're at least half way erect; and if they do show a non-erect guy, they make sure he's the most hung guy that they can find.

Change your routine every once in a while and have sex in different places other than just the bedroom all the time. Oh yeah! Don't be afraid to throw on some cologne or body spray...women have sensitive noses! If you don't eat pussy, you better learn to like it, and be a pro at it. If you're genitally challenged you gotta make up for it in other ways. Find a fuck-buddy thats willing to let you practice on her and listen to her advice. Be honest about your intentions so she knows whats up! The last thing you want is some chick asking you, "What are you doing!" in the middle of the act.

Hope that some of my advice comes in handy for you!

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Caroline

Of course penis size isn't everything - it's only part of the whole thing. But although I had a great time with my ex, his small (4.5in) penis was a problem. It gave very little stimulation, especially in some positions where there was only shallow entry or it easily came out. Then I met a man whose penis was almost twice as large and it was an entirely different story. The stimulation was intense and my orgasms were much stronger and longer lasting and I came much more quickly. He was also able to last longer and could repeat two or three times. I was sad to leave my ex, but in the end I couldn't give up the great new fun I was having. Call me over-sexed... but why not?

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Mario

My penis is not what I thought it was, that is, it does not necessarily "measure up" with other guys in certain situations that I now realize I have been avoiding all of my life. It is about 5 1/2 erect and about as fat, and I always thought it was marginal but okay, and my wife seemed to also, until we started going to a nude beach. A mistake okay.

Feeling pretty secure, being in shape and all, I went to a nude beach with my wife. It was first exciting but turns out to have been a big relationship mistake. There were a lot of unattended guys there, gay or otherwise, and she coyly seemed to be getting her eyes full. That was okay though because she stayed on the blanket with me and only peeked out from under her sunglasses.

We got into the habit of going there a few times a week and I was okay and comfortable with her obviously enjoying being naked in front of men and apparently looking at them, too. Sometimes she would even give me head right there on the blanket, oblivious or perhaps anxious to the stares of other guys. I thought it was hot. I didn't pay much attention eventually as she would wander away for walks down the beach while I stayed comfortably at the blanket reading or drinking wine or something. Until one day that I still feel guilty about.

That day we had gotten ther a bit early, maybe ten or so, so it was still cool out. She was wearing a shirt dress, quite attractive I might add, and went walking in the surf. I stayed at the blanket, jeans shorts on, and did some paperwork for a while. She was gone for a short time and then I suggested we go down to the surf together, and away we went.

Then we were playing in the surf, she in her shirt dress and I in my jeans shorts, the beach still comparatively empty, when he walked by. He was undoubtedly the largest man, in terms of penis size, that I have ever seen to this day. He walked by, nodded hello to us, and I remarked to my wife who was looking coyly from under her sunglasses that this guy was gigantic. She gigled and said she knew and that she had been talking to him earlier. That comment made me both angry and excited at the same time.

There was always a level of sexual excitement involved with going to a nude beach with her and watching her reactions to the guys. I admit it made me horny. Now I think I was over the edge with excitement. I asked her what they had talked about, nothing in particular, discussed his amazing endowment which made her smile, then I suggested if she wanted to stay at the surf and talk to him that I should take her shirt dress back to the blanket with me so she could show him what she had now that she knows what he's got. Shen agreed very quickly and pulled it off.

I left her sitting naked in the surf, waiting for company, and headed back up the beach, but not too far. When I got out of eyesight I hunkered down and spyed on my now naked wife sitting in the surf all alone. Then he came back. He was hung halfway down his thigh, balls banging everywhere they chose to, and he approached her. I watched the entire nude courting process going on, sick and excited at the same time. Then she got up and they left together down the beach and up across into the sand dunes. I wondered how I could follow without being caught. I decided I couldn't spy without being caught so I very frustatedly went back to my blanket with my emotions and imagination.

She came back about an hour later. According to her she had taken a walk alone down the beach, etc etc, but she oddly had trouble sitting down comfortably. I left it alone for the most part, kept my pants on, and finally suggested we leave for the day. When we got home, I was sexually tweeeked, very horny, and she seemed somehow preoccupied. We had dinner, had some drinks, quite a few, got in bed, and I started to ask her about her day for the first time. Surprisingly, probably because of the alcohol, she opened up and told me.

He had fucked her so wide and deep that it hurt, cum in her mouth so much, which she could barely get around, that she choked and had to swallow repeatedly, and gave her the orgasm of her life out in the dunes. Sorry to me but it was true...and she wanted to do him again, only for sexual reasons, no emotion, was that okay with me? I said okay in a weird sex trip and she did do him for a lot of the summer. The thing is, she started to play around with other guys too. She kept having plenty of sex with me, with that ever widening pussy, but her attentions were definitely on the prowl. Her experience with this giant dude spoiled her for guys like me. She would even comment on how dissappointed she was unwrapping guys that didnt measure up. She had developed a new found "taste" for male cum, but also a love for extremely large cocks, which she now felt compelled to search for.

My point is that once she had a very big one, it turned on a sex switch in her that had been normal before and somehow had become on overdrive. Don't ever feel too comfortable with your women because they may end up liking sex much more than you do. They may say that it doesn't matter, but unless you can compare to them, don't let her play. They like cocks, simple as that!

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Amanda

I read most of the postings here and figured I'd had my experience with penis size...I'm 31 and recently seperated from a mariage of 6 years. i was with a few guys before I got married and they were all about average to smaller, the biggest being around 6". My husband who I recently seperated from was rather small, he measured about 4 1/2" and rather slim. His size never really bothered me because I have always had men who were smaller..had never experienced a large penis. I have had bigger dildo's and vibrators, but they don't feel real anyway so I never really thought I was missing out.

Anyway I met a guy a few months ago and we started dating a little, I noticed he was very confident and secure with himself. I've heard men with larger penises are usualy more confident so I figured he might have been on the larger side. Well, after a couple of dates we were fooling around and I felt his penis through his jeans...he was so big!! I was so entrigued, i had to see it.

When he removed his pants, it was amazing. The feelings running through my body were amazing. I got so aroused, my panties were instantly damp. I never felt like that just looking at a man's penis. I have been with him now for 3 months. I love giving him oral - something I never liked doing before, and the sex...I'm having orgasms like I never knew I could have. His penis is about 8 1/2" and very thick which I like the most. It's so pleasurable from the second he enters me, I never knew what i was missing, the way he stretches me, not so much there's pain but just enough so I can feel the friction of his penis the whole way as he slides it in and out. I feel so full...I'm getting hot just thinking about it....it's amazing.

But the way I look at is any guy I'm with from now on... if he's not "big" I know what I'm missing and won't enjoy it as much. I'll always like sex, but now knowing what it could feel like...it won't be the same. Well size does definately matter to me now!!

Amanda

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John

I'm between 4 inches and 4 1/2 inhes fully erect. In almost 20 years of marriage I've only ever made my wife cum once while having sex (other than using my fingers or tounge). I feel very submissive and inferior to other men, not helped by the fact that a past girlfrend dumped me for a black guy and told everyone I couldn't satisfy her.

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Ttnat

Hey! Found this site last week. I figured I would give this a try. Ordered penis pills and did some exercises. Never had any complaints and I am a very good lover. Penis is around 7 inches which from what I read here is pretty decent. I work in the adult industry so I hate to say it has kinda made things a bit confusing for me. Seeing every girl needing a 12 inch dick to get off had me feeling inadequate for a long time. Obviously on the other end of the camera.

Amyways, I was with the same girl for a very long time. Once I started dating again I realized I was doing pretty good. Just the industry I was in kinda had my head screwed on backwards.

Last girl I date, I thought I was gonna kill her. Guess all girls are different you could say. Just like some guys have big penis some women have larger or small vaginas. But I am gonna give these exercises a try. I would definetly feel more confident with a 9 or 10 inch penis.

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Help!

I'm 18 and I've only been with one girl. I'm also her first. My dick measures 16cm long and 13cm girth when erect. I have no problem making her orgasm and cum but, sometimes I feel like I could be bigger and it would help. I've hit her cervix once or twice but it doesn't happen often. She says it still hurts when we first start having sex but, I don't seem like I fill her up.

I mean sometimes I have made her orgasm up to 6 times and made her cum twice in one session but, I feel like if I was bigger it would be better for her. I don't think I'm doing anything special. I'm scared that she will want to be with someone bigger and he would make her cum and orgasm even more than me. Should I be concerned? Lately I've been worrying about it alot and it has been hindering my performance in bed.

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AverageBlackguy

I'm a black guy with an average sized penis. It's 6.5" length and 5"1/4 girth. This makes me extremely unconfident when it comes to girls. B/c of my race girls expect me to have a monster cock. But it's just not the case. I've read a lot of these comments and it seems there is no perfect size to please a woman. If you have an 8" dick your woman may prefer a 10" or she may feel it's too big and perfer a 6". I'm kinda lost on what to do here but I think I'll shoot for the 8" anyways. I think this site will definitely change my life by giving me more confidence to do what black guys are known to do best.

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William

I come from a family where all the guys are heavily endowed. I am myself 9" erect and it's not all it's cracked up to be. Girls might be turned on initially, but I've acutually had smaller petite women that acutually had to leave because they couldn't handle it.

So, anyway, the point is bigger isn't always, better. I'd say about 8" would be perfect.

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Relating

I am about 6" - 6.5". I was dating this girl who had been with this guy who was pretty freaking big. Well atleast I imagine that he was pretty large. When we first had sex her pussy was larger than any other girl that I had been with (approx 15 other girls) and I filled up every girl just fine. Anyways, I could even stick 2 fingers and my dick in her! We had sex for a long time, I was sensual, soft, kissed her, licked her for a while & even fucked her hard but NO ORGASM!!! I couldn't believe it. I felt like a failure due to my dick size because I know that I am a good lover. It was intimidating and I was embarrased. I did not think we were going to date for long. We continued to have sex. Despite her having a big hole, sex was still great. I eventually stopped sticking my fingers in her during sex. And believe it or not, she eventually got her orgasm. I don't think it took more than a month for her to finally climax but I was always persistent in trying to arouse her in other ways (foreplay and such).

This girl (now woman) has been the best lover I have ever had. We've been married 7 years now. I have never cummed so good with anyone else. I had been constantly wanting her yet I wasn't sure if she wanted me as much as I wanted her. I started thinking that perhaps she needed a larger dick or something. I talked about having a 3some with another larger guy during sex, once, and that seemed to arouse her although she did not say much. I asked her after we both climaxed and she denied being turned on by it. More recent we've exchanged this dirty talk during sex numerous times now and it has come to a point where she's actually admitted to wanting to be filled (either bigger dick or 2 guys). It does turn me on because I would love to make her cum to the point that she says she "hates me" for fucking her so good. Pretty much how she makes me feel. I don't hate her of course but the way she makes me cum just makes me feel so helpless and not in control of anything.

So anyways after some thought and open discussion, with her, we decided to allow me to try penis enlargment. Hope it works as I will post after a few months. I'm pretty sure I can talk her into the 3some and probably get one for myself too but after reading the response "2Trever" wrote to "Trever" I would hate to lose her to some guy that may end up treating her like shit just because he has a bigger cock. Anyways, our sexual relationship is much better now after talking more about our sexuality and stuff. We have sex more often and in our 7 yrs I have never had a complaint.

Guys, don't let your insecurity get the best of you. If your girl does not bring up a 3some, then don't do it yourself! To those that want to do their girls with a larger guy, Don't! It probably is not worth it. And if your girl was with larger guy prior to you, don't sweat it, you will be able to make her climax. If she is worth it, then you must try. If she insists on a big cock, then let her go. It seems to me that girls that emphasize big cock too much are sluts and have little feeling left down there. Another thing, open up the channel of communication. Even if you have to do it little by little. Talk about yourself, your desires, your sexuality what you love about her, how she makes you feel and how much you treasure her. After several pretty open discussions, it turned out that my wife doesn't really want a threesome (largely due to her religious faith and fear of God) although like I said, if I continue to push I'm sure I can get her fucked as well as fuck myself over, so I will do my best to control my urges.

Damn I'm glad this is anonymous. Hope my story helps some1. =)

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Losing_it

I have 5 1/2 inches length. I didn't measure girth but it seems ok. Now the girl I am with is much younger. I am 50 and she is 32 and our sex had been OK, till she says her last boyfriend was HUGE, and he hit the back when he penetrated her. Since this happened my confidence has crashed and now I seem to go flat while we are making love. This is just getting worse now because and I am not even looking forward to making love. I tried using Cialis but they worked once and the second time I tried them I remained flaccid. Please help me get things back on track.

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Michael

This is a wonderful and valuable discussion. All I can add is that for 12 years I was an adult entertainer and am now retired. I am quite cute with a great body but it was the 8.5 by 6.0 that was my real calling card. Women go crazy over a big penis IF it is attached to a cute, nice, unabusive, in-shape guy who knows how to use it! At 40 now and in the dating scene I cannot imagine trying to compete with younger guys if it were not for the confidence that my dick gives me. Additionally, women told me things they would never tell their boyfriends or husbands such as how they have stronger, deeper and more frequent orgasms with me. It fills them up and slightly stretches them and drives them over the edge..........

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Abitolder

I'm just over 70 y.o.(!), 5'9", 160 lbs, healthy, good physique with a 7" erect and 6" girth (around head)cock. 50% of time have trouble maintaining erections but pills is very effective! Boy, do I enjoy being turned on by slim, well-toned athletic-type gals! My sexual interests haven't diminished across time! I do masturbate 2-3 x's week, which helps, and engage in intercourse 1-2 x's week too. Sexual episodes need time, patience, sensitivity to each other's individuality for best results in an ongoing relationship...and neither my partner nor I "stray". Can anyone relate to this type of "life contentment"?

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James

Hey everyone, well I'm 23 years old and I have a bigger-than-average penis. It's about 8 inches long by 6 inches thick. Awesome right? Well not always. Having a bigger penis is a turn on for some women and it is visually attractive. On the other hand, it prevents you from enjoying some things. For one thing, my girlfriend can barely give me oral sex, which is certainly not enjoyable. Anal sex is out of the question and vaginal intercourse can be painful for her and for some other women I have had sex with. Also, I can never have sex with her more than once a night because she is too sore. I'm comfortable with my size but it's not always a good thing.

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Frustrated

I'm 32 and I have an extremely small penis..under 4" when erect. I've had a very hard time all my life with relationships. I have no confidence in myself with woman. I've had many woman laugh and make fun of it, to the point I dread when I take my clothes off for the first time in front of a woman. I have to make sure i'm erect before taking my pant's off. If i don't it's totally inside of me.

I'm with a girl now and when we have sex, I can tell she isn't into it. We can't do many positions at all because I fall and slip out. I'm at the point now where I don't know if I'll ever find a woman that can be happy with me sexually. I just wanted to share my situation so all you guys that complain about your size can feel a little better...And if there are any woman out there who have had a penis this small and found it to be ok, I'd love to hear some ways I might make a woman happy with it, thus making myself happy as well.

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To:Masturbation4life

Don't give up. I have had relationship problems over the years that involved the size of my penis. It took a long time, but I found a woman that accepts and loves me for who I am. It might take a thousand failed relationships, but it is worth it. Time spent on the computer is time you could be spending honing your skills with what you do have.

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Masterbation4Life

Everyone, I'm curious to know what you think. I've read countless times that women are attracted to guys that are "confident", "funny" and "relaxed" ..etc. "Just be confident", "just date more women", just figure out a way to relax, be a gentleman, have a sense of humor blahblahblah and your love life will blossom...

I definitely agree that most of that is true. The guys I know that have many of those personality characteristics get plenty of action, for them its a party every night. For me, its not so easy, I've heard the slut-slogan "size does matter" so many times. I've seen the disappointment in her eyes too many times, I don't even bother anymore. I'm 5" erect. I'm a pretty good looking guy with a great sense of humor, and so it's double the disappointment when I hit the sheets with a woman. Over the years, I've just lost confidence with women, and my belief is that people that are confident with women are either packing a lot of meat or just so indifferent to what transpires in the bedroom they could care less.

Screw it. If there's a God he's laughing his ass off at me, so I'm not going to give him the satisfication. Anyone else just give up on sex and love, and start a hobby instead? Internet gaming and playing music is working great for me, albeit I'm sure it doesn't compare, but it's better than suffering endless rejecting and the whole "not feeling like a real man" issue.

J

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HMCS

To Trever,

I have to agree with the last comments. Only a fool would share his wife with another guy. I have the same problem as you, and my wife and I have discussed the same issues. We even took it a step further and my wife and another guy got to third base and stopped before intercourse. Thank God! She later stated that she felt really bad and unfaithful and could not do anything like that again.

We have found that almost real life-like attachments about 8 inches in length are way better. My wife says it feels really good, but the best part is that it is still attached to her husband whom she dearly loves. The point to this story is that she still gets her full fill-up but the pump attendant is still the same.......

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WomanLover

I read a lot of the comments here and it struck me that the question being answered is often slightly different than the question being posed. Really what many people are commenting upon is whether or not size matters when it comes to a woman’s enjoyment of vaginal penetration. The responses here seem to indicate that the answer to this question is an overwhelming, “yes!”

That said, the question of “does size matter when it comes to a woman’s enjoyment of sex” is an entirely different matter. First off, vaginal intercourse is only one of many elements of the experience of sex and sexuality. My penis is just over 6.5” in length and not particularly thick, but generally proportionate. I have never had any complaints about my size, nor have I ever had a woman say it was particularly great (I have actually had a few compliments on the overall shape, but that was more a matter of aesthetics).

I have, however, had women tell me, without any prompting on my part whatsoever, that I was “amazing” and “incredible” in bed. I attribute this to a few factors: one, I am generally a nice guy and I have the utmost respect for woman as human beings. I guarantee you, most women of any substance will tell you that being a good and considerate person is as big or a bigger turn-on than having a monster dick. Two, I appreciate and thoroughly enjoy all aspects of a woman’s body. In fact, a woman who is 12 years my junior once told me, weeks after we hooked up, that I was “like a god” in the sack. Was it my cock that elicited this incredible and very welcome announcement? No, it was simply the fact that during the course of our encounter I spent about 15 seconds kissing her feet!!!

The point is, different things work for different people and what I see in this forum is a WAY too narrow view of what people enjoy sexually. In fact, as a man, if all that you can enjoy is intercourse or having your dick sucked, you are missing out big time. One of the most erotic experiences I have ever had consisted simply of stroking a woman’s face and some light kissing. It happened years ago and I swear, just thinking of it now gives me a raging hard-on. I think the key was that we were sooooo intensely attracted to each other, both in a physical and emotional sense, the lightest touch was totally hot.

Anyway, the point of all this is that those of you with a small or average penis need not be depressed. Do some women really love huge cocks? Sure! Would the women I was with like me even better if mine was bigger? Perhaps, but who cares? The women and I both enjoyed ourselves and enjoyed being together sexually. If you pay close attention to a woman’s needs and fully commit yourself to licking, sucking, touching, kissing, and whatever else she needs in every spot she needs, there are few women out there who will be disappointed.

Good luck everyone!!!

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2Trevor

Trevor:

Don't do it!!! PERIOD!!!!!!! Your marriage will be over. I speak from experience.

Maybe you think your love is strong enough to keep all that "sex stuff" separate from your "love" and maybe she's a willing party to doing this now, but you will be the one who gets left holding your nuts in your hand while she moves on with someone can satisfy her AND who would NEVER let another man HAVE her the way you let HIM have her. You're screwed if you do this.

The sex industry, supported by psychiatrists/sex therapists, has sold us a bill of goods. It may seem like a "HOT" thing to do, but if you think you aren't satisfying your wife now, just wait till she gets reamed out by a massive meat. You will NEVER be able to satisfy her again. With all her best intentions to be faithful (once you've decided it wasn't a good idea), it will eat at her more and more until she MUST have it again. And once she crosses that line and cheats on you, it's over.

Think of it like this. Maybe you're too young to remember the Leggs pantyhose commercials, but the sell point was how the pantyhose would form fit to the woman upon the first wear. If a large woman "stretched" the Leggs to her physique, a smaller woman couldn't wear them. They would be droopy on her. I don't care what anyone (sex therapist) says to the contrary, once your wife gets the "big ten inch", your pitiful "four" won't "fit" anymore. You might get by with someone who is only an inch or two larger than you, but that isn't what she's after, at least from how it sounds. Believe me, once her "Leggs" have been stretched by a massive "leg", your marriage is finished.

Beyond that, to justify fooling around on you (and eventually leaving you), she will actually become angry with you that you didn't care enough (or love her enough) to stop her from or to even protest that she was giving herself to another man. The thing is - she's right. I know you love her and mean well, but if you are the one who first approached doing this after continually pushing the "what's wrong, why don't you like sex anymore, blah, blah, blah", you messed up. Damn man, you've been married six years. Every couple runs into stagnation, but there are solutions other than giving your "beloved wife" over to another man. You're a dude. Sure it seems like a good idea to you. The wrong head is thinking for you. Now you've opened up the door to the ruination of your marriage. Dude, once all the cumming is done, you are going to be the odd man out in the room. While your "wife" is laying there being held and caressed by "another man", having just been pumped full and SATISFIED, you'll be sitting there with your dick in your hand. Think about it.

On the other hand, if she brought it up first without your prompting, you might as well get on with it because she has already been considering it. But I get the idea you "pressed" her into drawing some sort of conclusion about why sex wasn't as exciting anymore. Even if she really had never even thought about it before, you forced her to consider what it is that "might" be unsatisfactory. The sad thing is, it probably really isn't the "size" thing at all, but that was the best she could figure, you know, since you were holding her hand to the fire, so to speak. Especially if you asked her (and, hence, prompted her) if it was about your size. I can see it now. Your wife: "Hmmm, yeah, that's it, sure, size, yeah, that's the ticket, sure, that's probably..." Good going. Nice can of worms you opened up, even though the real deal is probably the same as it is for everyone. It has simply become routine.

Consider this. When you guys get horny, the dopamine gets to flowing in the same fashion as someone with gambling fever or a crack high. See it for what it is. Once you cum, it's time to get up or roll over and go to sleep. Same thing when you're masterbating. Once it's done, it's over. Time to get back to reality. But while it's flowing, you'll think and say all kind of HOT stuff. I bet you all have had some fantastic sex since you've brought this up. My advice - talk, think, ponder, fantasize, but NEVER go through with it. I suggest you show her this message and you discuss it. If you truly love one another, the payoff in having sex with a stranger simply isn't there.

That is part of the bill of goods I mentioned we've been sold. Playboy, up through the sixties, was soft porn and even considered sophisticated to a degree. The smut damn broke once Hustler hit the scene and we've been sold this "big dick" shit ever since. And in this day of Girls Gone Wild, Internet porn, etc., girls - young girls - are "fisting" each other and riding mammoth dildos, never even considering that they are ruining themselves sexually to be able to have a reasonable sex life, not merely with a well hung guy, but with a human being at all. How sad that they might meet their soul mate but will never be able to be satisfied by him.

This story has played out on Springer and other talk shows time and again. The chick leaves the husband for the stud because he makes her "quiver". Exact quote. Size does matter guys, but only if a girl has had the monster meat before you. Girls, size will only matter up to the largest size you've had. Don't fall the crap that's been dished at us for the last 40 years. Sex without passion is no more satisfying than masterbation in the long run. And passion is only sustained when you love someone. Otherwise, you'll trek from one partner to another seeking the quiver AND the passion. Of course, if countless partners throughout your life is your cup of tea, there are countless studs' guns with a notch just waiting for you.

Ladies (who don't wish to be a whore the rest of your life), that great guy you finally meet who just might be your soul mate may not be well hung. If you haven't already stretched youself silly, save yourself for the right guy so you can have a meaningful relationship with him. Just so you know, a long dong stud quite often makes a poor partner for a long term relationship as he will always be out to notch his gun because he KNOWS he can make an unsuspecting "target" quiver and eventually cheat on her husband. They will cheat on their wives to do this. I'm not guessing about this. I've seen it first hand.

Trevor (and wife), what is it you think a hung stud's story is when his marriage becomes routine and size ISN'T an issue? He will set up a deal like you are considering or he will simply cheat on his wife, out on the prowl for a sucker like you, an unsuspecting dupe who doesn't understand his game, and seeking a woman who hasn't been properly "turned out" yet. And while he is fucking your old lady, knowing that right before your eyes he's going to make her moan and "quiver" in a way you never will again once he's finished with her, he will be fucking YOU at the same time. He will know he has won when she MUST have it again, particularly if you don't want her to do it anymore and she cheats on you. And don't think he's not aware of what I've told you. He is not your friend. A true friend will not screw your wife to begin with, but we've all been tainted with this shit for so long, who knows who would do what to whom. This is the truth of what you are considering. Why don't you just drop an anvil on your foot if misery in your life is what you seek?

Dudes, try kissing one woman while screwing another. Contrary to the porn bullshit, it doesn't work. There's no continuity between what the mouth is doing vs. what the dick is doing. The circle is broken. You cannot become "one" in this scenario. You are NOT making love in this situation. You are just fucking. It is unsatisfying and is part of the big lie we've been sold. Without passion, sex is just fucking. If you're young and unattached, fucking may be all you want. But after awhile, you might as well masterbate. It's safer and a lot less hassle.

Chicks, go ahead a get rammed in every hole at once and see what it is truly like to be a piece of meat. MAYBE you'll get off but, eventually, a cock will do nothing for you if you keep that shit up. You'll be just another used up, reamed out porn slut.

Friends, typical Christians so often don't know how to relate the practical application of what the Bible says, but these things are the real world reasons of why monogamy and saving one's self for marriage counts - aside from the disease factor. I have taught my daughter these things I've told you, albeit in a more sanitized manner, about the Leggs correlation and the hung stud's need to notch his gun. Mothers and fathers, you would do well to teach your daughters these things. As tough as it might be to speak of such as this to your baby girl, can you let her out into the world in this day of GGW and Net porn without letting her know, more than anything else at least, to not let herself get "turned out" (that's what a black guy called it to me once) and chance ruining her potential of a satisfying relationship with a decent man who may not be another Long Dong Silver.

Trevor, odds are your wife isn't as gung ho for this venture as she may let on while the dopamine is pulsing. Use your reaI brain and be objective and talk to her about these things when you all are not in a horny session. Consider other things to spice up your love life. There are dick extensions you can try. Or just knowing from someone who's been there that fantasizing is fine as long as you keep it to yourselves.

If you truly love one another, hold tight on what you have. True love is so elusive to begin with. Are you sure you want roll the dice on your marriage. You'll never get back what you will lose once you do this.

Good luck.

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Troubled

Ok ok, I'm asian! And like all asian men I've always felt small. I measure 6 in length and 5.5 in girth. My body size isn't too big either i'm only 5'5" tall and weigh 145lbs. Honestly I've never had any complaints, in fact I've received compliments because girls expect me to be 4" or so.

Even though I've haven't recieved any complaints, I'm still troubled and intimidated by bigger women (mostly taller). I have to have a petite women to make me a little more secure but my girlfriend right now is taller than me! Does a girl's vaginal size differ from a petite to larger woman? We haven't had sex yet but I know she wants to and i'm holding back because i'm afraid of her not being satisfied? Is that wrong or will she just enjoy me for what i can do?

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Trevor

I've been married for 6 years. My wife is 28 and I am 33. We are happily married except for one small problem (actualy a VERY SMALL problem): my penis is extremely small. I measure out at 4" when fully hard and very slim. My wife has never complained, but recently I've noticed her change sexually. She just dosen't seem into it as much. We can only have sex in certain positions to prevent it slipping out. We talked the other day and she admitted to me that she has never had a "BIG" penis before. She was with 4 guys before me and the biggest was 5 1/2". She said she has always wanted to feel what a big penis was like.

I must admit I opened up to her as well, having a small penis I've always found something exiting about seeing a large penis penetrate a woman. So anyway, we talked about maybe finding a guy with a big penis for her to be with...while I watched of course. She is really up for it as am I. I really want it to happen. My wife deserves it and I think it would be a turn on seeing her get stretched and penetrated deeper than she ever has, the noises and facial expessions she will make will drive me crazy. I'm for it and she's for it. Just wondering if anyone has done something like that and could share what it was like and if it hurt your relationship in anyway. It sounds like a win win situation, but I don't wan't to ruin what we have now, like if she likes it so much she has to have it all the time. If any one has any thoughts or advice, it would be apreciated!!

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Normal Dick

Recommendation for guys with shorter dicks. Position, technique, endurance, foreplay, romance are all important to fulfilling a womans sexpectations. My penis is 6.5"-7.0" long and 6" in girth when fully aroused. I find that in the missionary position at maximum penetration my wife can take more length. But I have also dicovered that in certain other positions I completely fill her up and "bottom out". My wife enjoys all positions but her favorite "bottomed out" position on her back with her legs extended back over her head at 45 degree angle. Ladies this sounds like you have to be a contortionist but if your man is careful it allows maximum penetration and saftisfaction. I even find that I have to be careful with these deep thrust or it to painful on the head of my penis. I am personally glad I do not have a longer penis, I believe it could be handicap. I like the freedom of being able to fully penetrate in some positions, not having to restrain myself or be concerned about hurting my partner, and then change positions and fill her up completely, Stop worrying about size, work on all the other parts of sex that you can materially change and enjoy it.

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Morningsun

I have been married 3 times and I have had numerous sexual partners. My first husband was almost 12 inches in length, second was about 8 inches and my current husband is about 6 maybe 7 inches. I have found that a larger penis hurts when I am having sex and if you are worried that they are going to hurt you then how can you enjoy it, right?

I think for some women, they like a large cock and some like smaller. It is all a matter of personal preference. I have always been told I have a very tight pussy even though I have given birth 2 times to pretty good sized kids (7lbs 4oz & 7lbs 15 1/2 oz) I still can not handle a large cock. My husband is worried about the size of his penis and I have told him that he is the only lover I have had that I really enjoyed sex with. I orgasm everytime though. I am one of those ladies that can not orgasm from sex alone, I use a "bullet" sex toy during sex and I get off everytime!

Size I think is all up to the person you are having sex with and I think if they are not happy about it then they should go somewhere else and let the man find someone who is satisfied with whatever size they are. Believe me, there are ladies out there that are not "size queens"

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Big dick lover

I wish my girl ex was like the girl at the stag who couldn't control herself and now loves big dicks. I am bi and love big dicks so much I asked my girl freind if she would let me watch her fuck a big 10 or 11 inch dick. It would turn me on so much to see her sucking on another man's huge penis, see the smile on her face and the pleasure it gave her.

I even wanted her to be fucking him in our bedroom when I got off work. I really wish I could join in but she wouldn't let me and called me a fagot. I never got to see her fucking. We would go to to a hotel or his place and she would start sucking his big dick but she wouldn't let me in so I would go to the store and every time she would lock the door so I couldn't come in.

One time we meet this black guy with a 11 inch dick and when I got back from the store the door was locked but I could see through the window and he was fucking her good on the floor and no condom. I knocked on the door and he let me in and hide behind the door. She had the biggest smile on her face. It turned me on so much but it hurt when she would lie and say they used a condom.

Every time we would hook up, she would dump me the next day and go to his place and fuck him without me. Then we would get back together the next day. Before I let my fantasy out, we had great sex 2-3 times a day but once we started talking about arranging a huge cock, our sex life skyrocketed. We would have sex all the time and I would cum amazing amounts with her. All we did was fuck eat and sleep. I never got jelous just horny. She wanted to make a gang bang and mail it to me when we broke up. But she said she couldn't because it would just turn me on. We still love each other and she was 20 years older than me. I hope I can find a woman who will share big dick lust with me.

bibottom@yahoo.com

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Alex

Hey!! Well, I'm also very concerned about the size of my penis...It is 7 inches and about 5 inches of circumference. I had a girlfriend when I was younger and she was telling me all the time about how she liked to be fullfilled by a huge cock...Which was not my case, unfortunately! So size does matter!! But I have a nice solution for you guys!! Go with an Asian woman. The last one I dated was in adoration with my penis and she told me she never had such a big cock before!! :-))))))) Good luck!

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Chris

I have a question for the ladies...I'm 33 and married. I have a very hot wife who is my everything. We have always had a active sex life. My cock when hard is about 4 3/4", very small to say the least. I have purchased several toys for my wife over the years and when I use the large ones on her she really gets off more than when I'm in her.

My question is, if there are any ladies out here with hubbies or bf's with tiny cocks like mine...Are there any tips you could give for better penetration with my wife?...Any positions you've found to work better? It might not be possible but I would really like to satisfy my wife during penetration...

Thanks

Chris

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Robert

My fiancee are taking the big step and moving in together. We have had many a discussion about toys, sex, size etc. She has always said that I satisfy her and she confided in me about six months ago that I was the only man she has ever had an orgasm with. Apparently, her ex was a "two-pump chump" and she was relegated to masturbating in the bathroom after he fell asleep. We have masturbated together and I always try and make sure she gets hers before I get mine. We have enjoyed a healthy and active sex life. She has told her friends that I completely satisfy her in every way (not just in the boudoir).

Here begins my dilemma: in one of our conversations we talked about toys. In this discussion, she said that she had to get rid of all her toys as her children are snoops and found some toys. She said she threw all but one away and had a tough time deciding which to keep. We have never played with toys together although the conversations are there. As I was unpacking I found her one and only toy. It is HUGE. I mean I was shocked. It is enormous. Not sicko porn enormous just large. It measure 12" in length and 6" in girth. I am an average size guy at 7" erect and only 4" around. She does not know I found this yet. If she only had one toy to keep -- this was it. Does she secretly want one that big? Am I man enough? Will she become dissatisfied with me? Those are questions I hate to broach. One, because I am afraid of the answer. Two, because I don't want her to think she has to talk me up as then I will know it is only due to my questions. I would rather her tell me without prompting. I am curious to hear your thoughts. Thanks!

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Allen

I'm a 16 yr old guy who have 5.1 in. I have a girlfriend of 18. We really love each other and we're already 2 yrs. One time, we plan to have sex, when I put my cock into her pussy and begun to push and pull... then she said, "Are you already fucking me"... That's a great insult to me, because she doesn't feel that I were already fucking her because I only have a small one...

Instead of being happy because we have our first sex, I become very angry because of what she says... A day after, I didn't say anything. I just broke up with her and walk out. After that I promise to myself that if my penis become 10 in., I will go back to her and fuck her until she had enough...

So I say that size really matters, even though girls say that it's alright if your penis is small, but for the guys, they want to satisfy their partner....

Now I'm working for my goal to have a 10 inches. Thanks to this site for their advices, and their exercises...

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Slide

My wife told me one night that her first husband was the biggest in the world... This had a bad impact on me. I'm almost 8 inches and thick. I asked her while she was going down on me one night about my size... She said "Well... you're more than a mouth full" again... Not what I was looking to hear.

I know she likes bigger. I have what I have and she has had 5 kids. I work hard and am a good provider and faithful to the end. I give her flowers and baths, walks in the moonlight... If she wants to trade a guy like me in on a big dick so that she can feel better... do it I say. You're loss.

I never said anything about her big pussy due to 5 kids. Get with it you shallow women. Own your own crap and stop putting the load on us guys. We bought you the damn workout video... use it.

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Horny from reading

I was doing these exercises and it got me horny from reading these stories. Anyhow, I always thought I had a small one, but I'm average so I accept it. But I've been with many women in my day, and they say my cock is perfect. I make them cum a lot. Even one time, I fucked this girl so long, afterwards, she started crying cause she felt so good. And she wanted to go steady, but I didn't wanted it to. But anyhow, lately I have been taking some pills, they keep me very hard for a long time, and last pretty long. Every girl I fuck drives them nuts. I tell them "I'm gonna fuck u like crazy " and they never complain about my cock. They just tell me "you're so fucking hard and fuck me harder"

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Janice

My husband has a very small penis 4" and thin girth. All his previous partners left him for as I would say "real men". Although I find his penis useless he is a good lover licking and is a expert pleasing me with various sex toys. We have now started enjoying humiliating his tiny cock and both get a kick out of humiliating him infront of my girlfriends calling him tiny winkie and other comments. Maybe not everyones idea of fun but its gave him a thrill out of being small.

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B&W

I have had a huge problem with the fact about girls wanting huge dicks. I am just around the 6" mark and it has devasated me. I am half black and half white and most stupid chicks say woooo your half black you must be hungs and giggle. The fact is they are retards. What would they do if I said woooo your Asian you must be tight. Why are girls able to get away with that and we cannot? In my case I hate to say it but I have done a lot of research and talkng to girls and I have to unfortunatey say that anything under 7" is plain just not good enough for any of them unless they're a midget. I am not knocking anyone, just stating the horrible truth.

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Jessie

I am astounded that so many people put such stock in length and yet only a few actually comment on the girth. My husband has a very nice 7 incher with a 6 inch girth and that's where the orgasms lie for me. And, uhm, hello, if men are so many different sizes then aren't women too? If the girl you are with is too loose or too tight then it's not just your size guys. I have to say that us girls could throw in a little effort here too. Kegels are important!! Gotta agree with another comment on here, and that is that us girls need to work our muscles so we aren't just porno's waiting to happen. Average man is 6ish in length right and 5ish in girth. So the average woman must be too. Work it ladies, cause the porn star pussy isn't gonna cut it the real world.

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Mike

I am 28 male 6 1/4. I think I'm small and don't feel like a man with that size. I do not date anymore haven't in 3 years and I think size matters and belive if ur not around 7 1/2 to 8 a woman will cheat on you. I've been dumped for other guys for no reason and think my size is the reason. I won't date until I can get it bigger and if i can't get it bigger I'll never date again. 6 1/4 = not a real man

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Broman

Does size matter? Of course it does more so to the guys than the girls I would think. From what I can tell, most girls want guys with a lot of confidence which having a big one usually gives a lot of.

On top of that small guys never can feel a tight twait unless they realy realy realy lucky to be in a very very small pussy:-) I may not be able to hit the bottom but I've never been inside any thing loose.

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Briana2

Let me start by saying that me and my wife have only had intercourse with one another in 11 years of marriage. I am 33 she is 28. So on the experience side of having other partners or intercourse with other people, that we do not have, I will say that for us our sex is great. My penis length is 6 1/4" in length & 1 1/2" across the top. My wife has multiple (6-10) orgasms during about 20 minutes of sex. Some times more, but never less, we have experimented w/ two different sizes of dildos & she has just as many orgasms w/ those as she does me. One dildo size is 8" in length & 2 1/4 in across the top, the other is 12" in length & 2 3/4 in across the top. Me or the dildos she has as good or as many orgasms. I will say that she still prefers my size overall when she is ready to finish her last orgasm. So my conclusion is that from what i read and hear women are so different than one another. Maybe more women have problems w/ penile size, but for me my wife I guess is just one of those rare women that just really orgasm w, any size penis. (maybe unless it is real real little). So i can say for us we have no penis or clit problems. If someone would like to email me on this please do at (camkit2004@yahoo.com)

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Sexy legs

I need a larger penis to have an orgasim for my G spot is deeper in and little dicks don't hit! And it's hard to get someone with a large penis.

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British8im

So it seems that size does matter to the ladies then ;). I've heard that the maximum a lady can take full length wise is 9". Is there any truth in this statement? The reason I ask is that I have 7.5-8" cock depending on arousal and it is 6.5" in circumference. Is it worth trying to increase the length to as near to 9" as can get with the exercises on this site? Or should I be satisfied with what I have and be greatful I'm better off than larger percentage of men?

Strange thing I found is that the women I've slept with were more worried about taking the girth than the length. Although I think the length must be an issue because I've had 2 partners complain about pain, because I go too deep or they physically put the hands on my pelvis to hold me back. And never had a pussy that felt loose around my cock luckily enough. If they did I'd be worried and wondered who they had before :-) To enter I either have to pull my foreskin forward to help entry, or get them really wet before I enter.

I think my size may have ended one relationship because she often needed to take a break from sex to have a pee and held me back to stop full penetration. She left me for someone else 3 weeks later.

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Ade

I am a black man born in London to Nigerian parents & I am quite fortunate to be blessed with a 9" long penis with a 6" girth. I have been getting compliments from women about the size of my penis for most of my adult life. Most women have never seen anything above 8" regardless of race.

However what annoys me is pornstars who add several inches to there dick size in order to boost DVD sales. They claim to be 11", 13", 15" and even 18" I have seen hundreds of porn films from before DVDs were invented and I have only seen two porn actors that come anywhere near double figures they are Mandingo and Tony Duncan . The rest are 9" and under so don't be fooled even Lexington steele who claims to have 11" in reality has 9". It's not the size that counts it's how you use it theres no point having a big dick and not knowing what to do with it.

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Nc

My penis is 6 3/4" long and the girth is a 4 1/4", I get depressed sometimes because of the size, but I'm also still in college and do a lot of partying, and I'm around girls constantly, I'm pretty good looking, so its makes me even more depressed at times that I know I could have sex but when I start fooling around with a girl I start becoming shy because of my size. It's not my length im fine with that, but my girth, is there one exersize that helps the most with your girth?

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Jsav

I have found that size matters, to an extent.

Some girls flat out don't care what size it is. Some girls prefer mammoth sized ones.

I found that one finds size matters once they encounter a large penis. If they like it, they become addicted to it.

Keep that in mind.

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Thick and Long

I'm am 22 and I have a big dick. It is 10.5 inches lond and 7 inches girth and I've been haveing sex since I was 15 and then I was 7.5 and 5 and most women that I've had sex with cry at the end or can't go on they say. And well I take long to cum. It takes me half an hour and well that seems long to me and I've had a lot of women since I was 15. I'd say about 24 I've had sex with all of them and they always say I'm the biggest they have ever seen and they tell me that after they had sex with me, they realized size really does matter and well they always say I'm lying when I tell them the size after they ask and after sex they say they cannot walk for a few days becaues I fucked them like there's no tommorrow.

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Turkish Man

Hi everybody. First I apologize for my poor english. I am 6.7 inches lenght with 5.11 girth. I think I am not big and not small.

I think all the guys NEED to learn how to LICK a vagina. I think it is very important.Touching boobs and ass...Your parnter need to feel that you want her so much. First you need to satisfy her brain. Pay attention. Love her!..Yess some girls addicted to big cocks. My last ukranian girlfriend was addicted to Cocks. She had a black boyfriend with a horse cock she told me. But she cheated him with me. Because she had a different personality. She was such a bitch.

So size doesnt matters if you are like a Fuck Machine in bed. Just do her nonstop! And keep staying inside her..use your hands!!Make her feel that you are a real Man. And never never cum before she come. All the time ask her...talk to her... Anyway I dont like my size because I just want a more bigger snake but what can I do? Just keep enjoying. This is my life and I want to enjoy my life. If one day somebody tells me that I dont have a dick big enough I will keep fuck her and I will get one more score ;) Just Enjoy your time...

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Chet

I'm an 18 year old bisexual with a 6.5" penis and have been dating this guy for about a year now. We started having sex about 8 months ago and at first my dick always satisfied him and he got used to it after the first couple of times we did it. But after a couple months, his asshole got so big that I my penis wasn't able to satistfy him and it was also taking me a lot longer to cum when fucking him. I could tell that I wasn't pleasing him like I used to, so I started doing those penis exercises and before I knew it I was getting him to scream and orgasm when I fucked him.

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Stuck with what I got

Me, just over 6" hard and 5 1/4 " girth. Not the biggest but not the smallest my wife has been with. Am I conscience of it? Yes. Should I be? Probably not. My wife makes me feel very secure with my manhood. She is small in staure, so my size compliments her size. I have been with women in the past that would need a cock the size of a thermos to get them off, and I have also been with women that made me feel like that thermos.

My wife has been with someone that had a cock close to double my length. I am sure the girth was as well. Do I satisfy my wife? Yes I do, I give her multiple orgasms each time we make love. I do know that I am not as thick as she would like me to be. How do I know? Everytime I am fingering het I start with one finger then graduate to two. In the past, that would be all I would use. She would usually say that is enough. But lately, I have been able to work three fingers in side her as well as being able to spread them apart, to create a wider feeling. This raised her off the bed. She starting bucking and moaning like never before.

Anyway, this tells me that she loved having her pussy stretched, something my cock can't do. My cock is about as wide as my two fingers. I get off on working the three finger magic, because my wife does. She is pretty conservative in our lovemaking only in the sense of how far she will go. No anal. Toys she is good with; one 8"/6" girth and one 6"/5 1/4 girth. She doesn't work them much but when she does, both come out. The big one, you guess it in her pussy and the other she sucks on. So that tells me she does like the big cock. She says she only uses them because I like it when she does. True, but she bucks and moans pretty darm loud and hard when she is riding Mr. 8".

All in all women do like big cocks. Big cocks do pose problems though. I never have had a problem with a woman taking me all the way in her mouth or in her backdoor. If you have a woman that treats your cock respectfully, meaning that she doesn't make you feel small, you have a wonderful woman and you shouldn't be sensitive about fulfilling her desires. I would like to see my wife take a cock like her last mate though.
Just seeing a 12" cock for me would be mind boggling let alone watching it f@#$* my wife.

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Ashley

Does size matter? Well I will admit that an 8 inch dick feels yummy but I've been with a man with 5 inches and he could work it and it felt wonderful. It's all in the hips and in the entry. I am one, I guess, of the few women that can cum if I just think about it. Whether it's oral, vaginal, anal or with his fingers I cum. So guys, don't get hung up on your size. Use your imagination....there is a woman out there to appreciate you....

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The Dahaka

Yes yes. It is what we all have known for a long time...size does matter. But not having a big dong doesn't mean you are bad at sex. What good is a big dong when you can't work it? I do have to say this though, at least most women are nice enough go give most guys with small dongs a pity fuck. It doesn't make you feel good knowing that the pussy you just got was out of pity, but let's be honest. If it wasn't for the pity fuck, most guys would probably still be virgins.

So just relax. "Small dick" doesn't equal "no pussy". Doesn't mean you have to put up with your small wang though. Technology exists to do something about it. Take me for example...My penis was 7 1/2 inches long and 6 3/4 in girth. I had no complaints and thought my penis was a pretty decent size. Then I found out that, for a black guy, I was not supporting the stereotype. I needed at least 8 inches in length and 7 1/4 in girth. That's when I started to feel small. This was about two weeks ago. So, I order some of those pills and found this site about the excercises. It is too early to start jumping for joy, but I am hoping for the best.

peace

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Vanessa

To all women and men in here: Women should work their pussy- muscles to get a tight pussy. If women used their muscles she would get much stronger orgasms and the man would not feel too small. Why is it all about male performance? Come on girls, don`t be lazy, lets work those muscles!

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Imok

I've been having some concerns about my size lately. My wife says she doesn't care about sex much anymore, but she doesn't know what would help. Then, I was talking with my best friend today who is recently divorced and on the dating scene again. He is younger and isn't sure about the size of condom to buy...for his 8.5 to 9 inches. Then I felt really insecure... until I found this site and this forum. I'm apparently quite above average with my 7.5 inch length and 6+ inch girth. Thanks to all of you small dicks out there to help me realize that I'm ok.

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Newly Single

Here's a little novel from a very promiscuis girl. Unfortunately size counts, but as said before, I agree that too big is too big. I've been having sex for over 20 years and have had 100s of guys. Well, in 18 of those 20 years, I only experienced vaginal orgasm a couple of dozen times, and even less clitoral ones, unless given by myself. I always thought I was just another female statistic.

Although I felt I knew a fair bit about sex, just last week, my Haitian boyfriend (with a thick 8 inch erection) and I broke it off and I've just been realizing how my life had changed since I met him. I'd been having vaginal orgasms nearly every time we had sex. Now, to get over him, I have done my usual string of one-nighters, and have been astonished at how unsatisfying the 4 and 5 inch cocks I've been seeing! So I called upon an old fuck friend with 8.5 inches and huge girth and I came as soon as he got in, and every couple of minutes thereafter!!!

So I jumped on the web and started looking up size issues (penal and clit). And to my utmost astonishment, I discovered my clitoris was very much on the small side!!! And it hides under my hood and so guys practically needed to be masters or devoted monks to give me a clitoral orgasm. I don't know why, but for some reason, thinking my lack of vaginal orgasms were normal for so many women, I simply lived with it! I loved sex, especially hard sex and was always very 'vocal' throughout the whole affair cuz I was truly having fun, just no orgasm. Guys were often turned off by that, cuz they didn't think I should be having so much fun if I wasn't having an orgasm, duh! Wrong! I always compared it to screaming on a roller coaster, no orgasm there!!!

Anyway, for 2 years, I've focussed on dating black guys, and since then, my vaginal orgasms are practically normal! Wow! But all this to say I believe, from ahem, the 'depth' of my experience, that there are a couple of things guys can do to improve penetration depth:

- Loose the alcohol, gives you more girth and firmness.
- Loose the gut, gives you more depth by adding maneuverability.
- Get hip flexibility, and I've learned this in particular from black guys. Ooh I love you! Black guys often use their hip muscles and flexibility to push and snake their hips into my hips, instead of rocking the entire body back in forth. By flexing the hips, you improve the penetration angle and get much more out of it!

So I'm single once again, but facing a very real new challenge, now that I totally understand what I NEED to get off, how the hell do I go about looking for it? In hip hop clubs I can feel the guy up in a club situation by grinding, but I can't do that everywhere! and I've looked for "penis" in the personals, and size of course is never mentioned. And as a previous comment states, there is one drawback to large girth, there's no way it will go into my small ass, so I guess we'll just have to use slender toys more often :-)

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Tina

I stumbled on to this site. I am not sure how but was curious to read what others had to say about cock size. I agree with someone that said you can not really judge if size matters if you haven't experienced a large cock. But other things matter in a relationship too. It's a collection of personal and physical traits that make up attraction between anyone.

I've met men that I wasnt intially attracted to physically, but after talking with them they came more attractive. And converserly, I've met men that I am attracted to across the room to find out later that they aren't very interesting as a person. We need to keep all this in perspective I think.

Sex is more than just friction of two body parts. But I do have to admit when a guy drops his pants and an 8 jumps out, I smile inside and get aroused just by seeing it. There is a reason why all the porn guys are 8-9, it's just more graphic to see. But for me a cock can be too big also. Anything over 8 is hard to handle for me.

Just my 2 cents.

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Carole

If size didnt matter why the hell to almost all guys get so hung up about it??. Of course size matters. Much the same as breast size matters to females. My husband has almost 8" and I have dated guys before with smaller dicks. The thing is that big dicks DO feel better. There's no comparison. Plus, guys with bigger dicks seem to have more confidence which in itself is a huge turn on for women. If I was making guys, I would give them all 8"!!!

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JRock007

I'm reading all of these comments and never really paid attention to the EXACT size of my cock, because all of the woman that I have slept with over the last 12 years, which is approx. 19-20 have never complained about my size. They usually say it's quite large and I don't question that.

I've given all but 2 of those woman orgasm's and that was only because I came to fast in the one girl (Drunk or Just Woke Up? I forgot) and the other one told me weeks before we even had sex that she had never experienced orgasm. I told her that I would give her her first one, but I failed. I was confident that I would be able to do it because at that time I had slept with about 10-11 woman and had succeeded with all of them. I didn't let that bother me though, but I swear I tried everything and I think she came close, I don't know man!!!

Anyway, moral of this tale is that I just measured my cock, just now. I could only get it to a partial full erection probably because I'm not extremely horny right now. I measured 6.5 inches in length and 6.0 inches in diameter. I guess I'm satisfied as I think all men should be with their penises. I don't know whether it's because I have a very satisfying dick for most woman, but I don't hear them talk about this subject that much.

I guess I've heard woman make fun of small guys before, but it's not a big deal. Guys don't worry if you have a small dick. Woman will still fuck you and if you can't satisfy a woman with your small dick, make up for it by being the best damn pussy licker they've ever known!!!!!!!!!!

Peace....

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Gallo

I am a 17 year old male with a 6 1/4 by 5 penis and I have been with a couple of girls before and I have learned that if you're with a girl who has been with much bigger before and you feel like you aren't able to fill her, you can just bring her legs closer together to make her pussy tighter so it will be more pleasurable for the both of you.

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Harold

Well, I've read every comment in the forum. I've come to a few observations:

1. Size does matter. Length Turns Women On.
2. Size does matter. Width Makes Women Come.
3. Size does matter. Big Makes Men Confident.

I'll admit upfront: I have self image problems. Whenever I confront an asshole, I leave thinking "Yeah, he's an asshole, but I bet he has a dick and a sex life". And whenever I see a woman I like, I think "Yeah, she thinks I am charming, but she'd gasp and run when she sees me naked".

Life is complex. You have to love yourself before you can be loved by others (OK - pop qiz - Whose quote is that??). Hey - any other small guys out there? I want to hear from you - how are we doing? Does this stuff work? Give me a sign!!!

Oh, to the small guy with 3" and some..., 5" doesn't do any better for me... Had a guy say to me once "You need to dump so-and-so - she trashes you for your little dick size to every one she talks to". A guy doesn't forget these events, does he?

By the way - Webmaster: To me, this is a site of love and compassion. Thank you so, so much for making it available. You give me hope.

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Harold

I'm in my early 50's and suffered from lifelong depression, much of it due to my small penis size (5"). When I was dating, I had a couple girls dump me immediately upon seeing my tool. My wife is fat and we don't have sex anymore because I find fat women extremely repulsive. I'd start dating again but the fear of ridicule and rejection stops me. Seeing porn movies probably made my fears all the more powerful. Now that I've seen what is out there, I'm going to commit to this system. If it works, it will change my life.

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Dave

I am 5' 9" 250 lbs and have a 5' length and girth when measuring to the pelvic bone like this website says to. But...I have a fair amount of fat around the base of my penis. Nothing out of the ordinary for someone my weight. I am about to turn 24 years old and haven't had sex since my senior year in high school. The girl was my first and last. She cheated on me and then told all my friends I was small and didn't satisfy her. I am now too scared to pursue a sexual relationship with another girl because of this. I believe size does matter for the female, for the male, and for the self esteem. Any comments?

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Matthew

Hey folks... just got into this practice, really. I'm 34, my measurement is 7" erect with just about 5" in girth. I am not happy with my girth. My current girlfriend, whom I hope to marry in a few years, says it's good, but she has had bigger, longer, thicker penises. She won't say that it was great having bigger, in fact she says if I get bigger she may be in pain. But I started using a pump and it gets my dick wider and harder for a day or two and she takes it without really noticing. These times, she says she feels so full.

So yeah, it is important to be long and thick. I dont really want more than an extra inch in length but my ex-wife and previous girlfriends all said I needed more girth. It hurts to think my girlfriend is settling for my hot dog weiner. I am taking pills to enlarge, still pumping and will continue with these exercises. Will let you all know how it turns out.

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Painter

To 48 year old and married for 6 years. Thanks for your comment. You really answered my all my questions. Please feel free to write again and I would like for you to explaine it to my wife so that she might want to try it. As you said it would be so hot for the both of us. Thanks again. Maybe we could get my wife and your husband together LOL.

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Bill

My penis is 6.5-7in long and 5.5-5.75 thick depending on how hard I am. I have been married for 15 years to a women I started dating 30 years ago, I can tell at times if I am very hard when I first put it in I am to big for her, so most of the time I give her oral sex untill she has an orgasm, then we have sex and when she is ready to orgasm again she warps her legs around me to force me all the way into her.

About 8 years ago I started having an affair with an old friend of mine, the first time I was with her she gave me oral sex and told me I was huge. She is also married and tells me I am at least 2 in longer and much thicker than her husband. She also tells me she had never had an orgasm before me in her life and that I am the largest she has ever seen. She says that as soon as I enter her she has an orgasm and I can tell because she gets so wet. When we have sex she orgasms over and over.

We have had many talks about our sex life, and she says that size does matter. And also time matters. With her husband, it last only a minute and he is done. We love having sex and I appreciate the fact that she loves the size of me, so I guess size does matter.

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Amee

Basically I have just two girls friend in my life and both were looking upset and frustrated with my penis size almost 6 month ago. Their desire length was 6 inches, but my penis size was just 4 inches. This situation was continuously pinching me and provoking me continuously to use any method to enlarge penis size. Hence, based on my personal experience, I can say that every girl desire large penis.

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Dear Painter

I am a 48 year old, married for 6 years to a great man. I've been with several men before my marriage, not one of these men where the same size, they were 3'' to 8'' and all thickness's, and found great lovers in all categories. I was definately in favor of thickness over length, a 5'' fat one was better that a 7'' thin one.

My favorite was Ben, he was a great stud, he was modest at 6'' but was an incredible 6 1/2'' in girth. Now I've heard of thicker but this is the thickest I'd seen, even when I was hot it took some gentle persuation to push his beautiful thick cock in (it's making me wet just thinking of it again). It truly was the best cock I've had. It was an awesome sight when he would slowly flop it out of his pants and tease me with it. I just loved being pumped by that big beauty, and to stroke it by hand was heavenly. It was more than I could get my hand around and definately too much for my mouth.

Well, we broke up. I really missed his cock. I had several others after but I always seemed to compare them to Ben, it's sad to say but the reason I went out with one for so long (future hubby) was his nice dick. But then we fell in love. Anyway I told my hubby about Ben and it was the talk of many of our sexcapades, he said he would have loved to see me getting banged by that big one. So we searched online to find a suitable man to do the job (searching with hubby was very exciting in itself). We did find one, actually several to my surprise, that measured up. We met a real nice younger couple, it was awesome, this guy was of Ben's stature and my hubby just loved watching me get fu#@*ed by his huge cock, and watching him pound this other women was really exciting. Hubby has a big unit, and it was great watching him use it.

We have made new freinds, we visit several times a year, hubby loves to watch and I love to get laid again by a fat dick. You should fullfil your fantasy, you will definately like watching your gal get laid by a monster, I sure did and there is no doubt that "she will" love it.

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Maria

Mr. Painter...

Your girl really loves!! Hell yeah, she'd like to ride a bigger cock (every women'd like to..) but let's be honest, why use a 8" toy when she can have the real deal ??? (You know what I mean???) So.. Just enjoy every time like it was the last.... and Love and Respect your girl

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Painter Responder

Mr. Painter,

I frequently ask myself if I am man enough for my wife. She consistently says yes I am. She always has orgasm two or three times before we are done. I am 6 1/4 long and about 5 1/4 inches in circumference, average as the charts would say. My wife has had much smaller and has had bigger, to the tune of 12". I guess as you grow, the width would follow.

She is tight when it comes to sex. But when she has orgasmed and I am still working, I get lost in there. She is very wet and she is expanded.

She has a toy that is 8" long and about 6 1/4 in circunference. She says it is too big. One day I was performing oral sex on her and using Mr. 8" and had all 8" in. She usually only takes about 5-6 inches, but on that night, I had all 8" in when she said go deeper.

I love watching my woman ride a bigger and thicker cock. It turns me on as well as her. Course she says she only does it because I like it. In summation, do I feel inadequate? No because my girl makes me feel secure. But would she like to ride a bigger cock? I believe she said it best when she said deeper with the 8" toy.

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Painter

I've been married a number of years and the wife has had children. I know that she is not as tight as she used to be. My penis is 7-1/4 in. long and about 5 in. around. She deserves to have that feeling of tightness she craves. She has never complained, but I feel she deserves a big cock.

I would like for her to have sex with someone with a big cock to see if it fullfills her. It wouldn't change the way I feel about her. It would be great to watch as a big cock slides in and out of her pussy. I would really like to hear some responses to my comment (from men and women).

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Kotsev

Here's my personal experience. I have NEVER had a woman tell me I'm too small. I HAVE, however, known exactly when I have been too small for some women. The ultimate evidence is when they say "Deeper, deeper" and you're giving it all to her. Sometimes it doesn't matter, sometimes it does. Depends upon the woman and the scenari