Many people may wonder what Mental Penis Enlargement is and for good reason. Penis Enlargement to most people is a physical thing, do exercise, take pills, use a Penis Enlargement device, Penis Enlargement surgery, etc. but Mental Penis Enlargement has nothing to do with physical Penis Enlargement, at least not in it's original theory. Penis size is relative to the person who is looking at their penis, or someone else's. For instance, you may look at my penis and think it is huge but to me it may be small. The same thing applies in opposite, you may look at my penis and think it's small while I believe it to be huge. What is penis relativity? It is more than the way we see a penis, it is a issue that is at the root of sexual psychology.

Since my time in Penis Enlargement I have met many men who's perspective on penis size varies as much as the very finger prints they may leave behind. Relativity, in definition, means the view from the observer. This view may disagree from viewer to viewer but in every case the independent view is correct. My penis looks small to you but large to me, we are both right. The beautiful thing about individual relativity is it is not a constant as seen in the physics model of light:) The mind is very powerful and the influence it has on the way we view ourselves sexually and this can be devastating or miraculous. Lets think about this in easier terms. Lets say you have been in a relationship for 5 years. During this 5 years you were with a woman who had numerous partners. The partners she had were big in size. You, who previous to this relationship felt confident about your size, now feel small and inadequate. At some point this relationship she ends it due to your size and you are left with the inadequate feeling in her wake. You now see yourself as small when in your past you saw yourself as average or even large. Now, one evening you go out to a bar and meet another woman. Events lead to you taking this woman home and having sex. Immediately after you take your pants off her mouth drops to the ground and she says that you have the biggest penis she has ever seen. She is in awe and she can't stop complimenting you. Her relative view is completely different than that of your x. This reaction leads to a change in your own relative view and now your confidence is through the roof. Who was right, your X or the new woman? Both.

How does this effect you? Well as most human beings you base you own self image on that of those around you. This, although completely irrational, is a reality. We judge ourselves from the views of those around us. Our entire life is built on the human interactions we encounter. Whether this leads to a positive self view or a negative one depends on the interactions we have. It also is extremely vulnerable, it can change with the wind. As quickly as we build an opinion on ourselves based on outside influence we can change it by the same type of influence...kind of fucked up, huh?

I was talking with my Mother at dinner one evening and we were discussing physics (a popular topic between my Mother and myself). Relativity became the highlight of the evenings discussing and we expanded this physics term to a more human level. Aside from a individual perspective on any particular view of an event I took it a step further. I asked her to ponder the view from self and it's possible difference from that of the we. For instance, you may see the color red as black while I see it as what I believe to be red but you see this as yellow. Taking it a step further, you may see big as being average in my concept while I see small as average in your concept of large. More so, her being female while I am male may have an even more distorted comparison to the 2 individual lines of vision and thought. Who is right? The answer, once again, is both from the observers view. Another beautiful way to see the equation E=MC2.

Wit men and their penis it becomes difficult to forge a self-opinion, a visual view of the penis in your own deep self view. A view that is free from influence from others. Relativity is the view of the observer. If we can change the way we see ourselves as quickly as a new opinion from another person the is our view truly that of self relativity? This is somewhat of a paradox...our view is based on that of your view.

Keeping the strength of thought at the forefront of your problem I think the next step is to examine "the word". The word is the most powerful tool we have as intelligent, emotional beings. We use the word to communicate with one another for good and bad. The word, being such a simple thing, effects us in monumental ways. Consider this analogy, a father comes home from work after a terrible day at work, he is frustrated, upset, short of temper. His son was running about the house singing songs (the child aspired to be a singer and he was very talented.) His father, out of anger with himself says, shut up, your voice is ugly. The child hears this and never sings again, he suffers with confidence and the rest of his life he is plagued by insecurities, all because of the word. The word holds infinite power. Another man who used the strength of his word to destroy millions of people was Hitler. So you can see how powerful this is.

Now consider the word used on yourself. This happens everyday in many ways. It might be morning and your think to yourself, "I am happy, today will be great" and this comes to pass. The same thing can happen against ourselves in many ways but we will explore sexual issues. In your case the word(s) is "For the life of me,i can not shake the idea of the next chick thinking i'm small when it comes to my dick" In turn this mental poison festers, it grows and becomes more and more believable as the thought is repeated. So much so that you have already decided that every new girl that comes along is going to think what you think. You believe your word and because of this you have unwarranted fear. It makes no difference what the woman is really thinking because you are making yourself suffer because of a thought process that you have created somewhere in your past. Does she think you are small? Of course not, you are huge. And if you really think about this, you know you are huge but the conflict lays in a debate of reality and fantasy in your mind.

This debate will go on until you use the same word that got you thinking in such a negative way to take you out of it. I know I preach allot about mental penis enlargement and these lessons I give are not just for the men who PE they are for all men. As human beings we are addicted to suffering, we are the only species that punishes ourselves over and over for the same mistake. Animals in the wild make a mistake, learn from it and never suffer anymore for it. But we, through our addiction to suffering, punish ourselves over and over. We are literally in Hell on earth and to make it worse we are surrounded by people who do the same thing.

You need to change the thought, the word, the very thing that put you in this position. Realizing we are suffering for something that is not true is the first step. In your case it is the thoughts that every woman is going to think as you do. As I write this I am sure you see how silly the thought really is. It has no basis in reality, it is only a self-degrading fantasy...admit this to yourself. Next you need to replace the poisoned word with a new thought "I am a good man, I am confident, my mind is healthy, my body is beautiful. My penis is huge, I love my penis" This statement excludes the need to push our thinking on others, it erases the irrational texture of the infected word. It may feel strange at first and it will take time to de-root the old and plant the new but it will happen. Live my these two rules and you will be living in Heaven on earth:

1.) The word is the most powerful tool available to the human race

2.) Never make assumptions.

These two simple rules will eliminate everything you have ever made yourself suffer for.