It's not how big it is, it's what you do with it..." "It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean..."
We've all heard those comments about male endowment but what do women really have to say about penis size? Read on and see how a bunch of feisty females responded to the perennial question:
"What's the perfect penis size?"
W said:
I don't know where you got those responses that penis size isn't important but the reality of it is size does matter to both the man and woman. A man with a large penis has the confidence that he can satisfy any woman and after all making love for the man is all about confidence. More and more research is showing that a larger penis does give more pleasure to a woman especially the girth of the penis. I have never seen a six inch or less dildo. Dildos are all designed large. Women brag about their mens size and I think that just making love with a man with a large penis makes them feel like more of a woman. Women seem to think something terrible will happen if they suddenly come clean that larger is better. I was just on a website from a university study showing that young college girls like larger penises. Maybe the next generation will be more honest.
Sweet Sarah said:
Each woman is different physically, so there's not really a "universal" perfect size. Me? I'm little, so my perfect size is probably 4-5 inches. But one of my friends is a little larger and she likes 5-7 inches. That being said... in my experience, size hasn't been the factor that ultimately made sex good or bad.
A Player said:
I like 'em the size of a nice big juicy cucumber.
A Good Time Girl said:
To me, size absolutely does NOT matter. I'm 4'11" and very petite, so I don't need a whole lot of penis to fill me up. There was one guy who was so small that I wasn't sure if we'd had sex after we were done. (He was probably a couple of inches long and skinny as a pencil.) But anything bigger than that is generally ok. It's true that there's some "size queens" out there (women who just love really big penises), but that seems to be more of a mental thing than a physical need.
A Sporty Girl said:
Girth is probably more important to me than length. Having said that, the perfect size for me is about 6 inches.
A Thinker said:
I've had more problems with too large than too small. Perfect? 4-6 inches, with medium girth. Here's the pros and cons on small. The cons? There's trouble keeping it inside me during intercourse - and constantly having to "re-set" the table breaks the rhythm of things. The pros? Having a smaller penis means fuller insertion, and thus, more friction on the clitoris. Plus, smaller penises are easier to give head to. So my preference is on the smaller size. Here's the cons of too big (girth especially). It can be physically uncomfortable, and it makes me feel inadequate - like I can't take on more of him. Plus, having to build up slowly to full insertion breaks the rhythm of a sexual encounter. I haven’t had a ton of experience with too big, but in general I found more problems with them than pleasure or fulfillment. Could have been my partner, though, not his organ...
A Good Time Girl said:
8" long, 6" around is good for me... but if you know how to use what you've got, it goes a LOOOOOOOOOONG way!
A Player said:
You really want to rock our world? Follow this simple advice: start us off with oral sex. And if you make a few groans of pleasure while you're down there so we think you're enjoying it, this will dramatically enhance our excitement and pleasure. When your woman is ready for sex, ask her which sexual position she prefers. Trust me, all women have their favorite position. Mine is being on top and having my boyfriend use his hands to stimulate me; this is one of the best ways for women to climax during actual intercourse. It gives us control and feels great -- and with this position, it doesn't really matter what size he is. Also, if you're handy with a vibrator, try that out. Talk about fun!
A Thinker said:
The guy I've been seeing is 35 and he's great in bed - but since he didn't know the particular fact I'm about to share with you, I'd assume that most other guys don't know it, either. Here goes: There are verrrrry few nerves up inside the vagina. The best way I can describe it is like a novacained lip - we can feel pressure (from your cock moving around inside us, or just from the way it expands that space) but there's not much surface feeling. The sensitive nerves you want to pay attention to are around the the vast pink area between the lips. That whole entire area is just crazy with feeling. You might wonder, then: how do women have orgasms thru sex? Well, I asked a friend who's a sex therapist and she confirmed that very few women can have orgasms directly thru intercourse. Many are faking it - they think they're the only women who can't, and they want to please their guy. Want to be amazing in bed? Trust me: learn how to make a woman come with your hand or your mouth - and be eager to do it often. She'll be putty in your hands forever. If you're eager to make a woman come, your value in her mind goes up like 20 billion points. Seriously. It's because most guys don't bother, or they're just clueless. This isn't to say that sex doesn't feel great. It does. We love it. But a guy who knows to make us come orally FIRST, and then has sex with us - that's a guy who really knows what he's doing. Just by knowing that, you'll beat out 75% of the guys out there. And then the women will follow you around.
GK said:
As a woman, I am going to be honest with any and every male. The answer to if size counts: NO!!! It's all about how you work it that counts. You can be hung as a horse and still can't satisfy a woman. You can be as small as an inch worm, but if you know the right spots to hit it, then it shouldn't be a problem. When having sex with a woman, there should be communication. Once you both can understand each other's likes and dislikes, then the sexual experience can be truly rewarding with each other. Size does not count, however I would prefer a well endowed male who can take care of business.
CC said:
Okay, guys. Here's some general information. 1. Four to eight inches is considered the normal range of penis size for adult males. 2. Five and a half inches is the average length of the adult penis. 3. There is no correlation between penis size and height; size of the foot, hand, nose or any other body part because there is no 'bone' in the penis, contrary to the popular euphamism. 4. There is very little correlation between penis size and ethnicity. Black guys are slightly larger than white guys, and Asian guys are very slightly smaller than white guys - there's not a big difference. 5. Width IS more important that length as far as making women happy, BUT copulation isn't what most women care about anyway. We like touching and caressing and being treated like we matter and not like a body on a slab. 6. Most importantly, penis size has nothing to do with who you are as a person and what you can accomplish with your life. You are important, not because of your penis size, but because of what you do with the gifts God gave you. Be a man. Be unselfish. Do good and make people's lives better. 7. Treat people with respect. Stop dehumanizing each other and stop thinking of people as objects for your pleasure.
JG said:
Each and everyone of you is a product of natural selection. Guys, that means that your daddies, and their daddies, and their daddies... were PICKED (ie selected) by the women of their time. If they didn't like what they saw or felt in dick size, presumably they would have left and found someone else. Another way of putting it is, you are the product of past desirables, which would include your dick. So if the "average" range of dick sizes is between say 5 and 7 inches, then that indicates that females have been selecting that size on average for thousands of years. If the ONLY thing that mattered was a big dick, then all males would currently be very large (10 inches or more?) since past females would have selected only the biggest size. Strangely, but as a matter of fact, you have (past) females to thank for whatever size you are now. I know that most of this will be waisted on most of you. Statistically for every "large" male there is a similarly sized female. Big penis genes can also produce big vaginal canals.
LL said:
All this talk about "am I big enough? Am I too big? Am I normal." I've got news for you, everone is different. Take it from me there are women out their who like small dicks. Just like there are women who like big ones. If you take the time to get to know the woman a little instead of trying to jump in her panties from the moment you meet her, maybe your size won't matter so much. As long as you're willing to put the time in to please her in other ways. There are women who will say "I need it to be really big" but that's only her preference. There are some who think 5 to 6 inches is just right. Women are just as different as men and if one makes you feel bad because you don't have what she wants then she probably wasn't worth the time anyway. What matters is, "does your size please you?" "Does it make you feel good about yourself?" If what you have doesn't please you, then it won't please anyone else because you'll be so worried about your size that your technique will suffer. And technique is a BIG part of what goes into pleasing a woman. So please get over it and move on. Learn how to use what you've got and you'll be successful with the women.
Speaking from a purely physiological stance it’s often stated that penis size is relatively unimportant; and that a man with a relatively small penis should be able to sexually satisfy his partner just as well as those who are lucky enough to be better endowed.
The simple truth of the matter is that when aroused, the length of the average vagina is only four inches long. Yes, it can stretch in length to accommodate a bigger penis if necessary, but otherwise just four inches will do the job just as well.
But what’s more, most of the nerve endings within the vaginal canal are found within these first four inches, which (internally at least) makes this by far the most sensitive part of the vagina and therefore, the most susceptible to stimulation. Not to mention the fact that the G-spot i.e. that highly sensitive area on the top side of the vaginal wall, is also located but a mere couple of inches inside.
An interesting tidbit is that the deeper recesses of the vagina are devoid of sensation to such an extent that it’s actually possible to perform without anesthetic, minor surgical procedures deep inside without causing any discomfort.
So physiologically at least, an erect penis of just four inches in length should be able to stimulate all the right parts. And as such, it’s pretty much a fallacy to suggest that a bigger penis in terms of length can provide any greater physical stimulation simply because it reaches further inside the vagina.
Likewise, the same physical principle applies to penis girth. The elastic tissues within the vagina are capable of both stretching to more than 4 inches (10 cm) in diameter during child birth but yet can also shrink sufficiently to hold a tampon firmly in place. Because of this extreme adaptability, the vagina will happily mould itself tightly around whatever size penis it encounters – big or small – and as such, a penis with a four inch circumference should provide just as much stimulation as one of six inches.
Psychological Preferences
Of course, the points mentioned above are just cold anatomical facts that give no regard to women’s psychological preferences. Could it be that women find a bigger penis more of a psychological ‘turn on’ and therefore, experience greater sexual pleasure with a well endowed partner?
In 2005, a study conducted by the University of California, Los Angeles attempted to answer just this question. The study, based on 50,000 adult responses to an online ‘body image’ questionnaire found that eighty five percent of the women who took part in the survey were in fact ‘very satisfied’ with the size of their partner’s penis. And what’s more, only six percent of the women respondents considered their partner’s penis to be smaller than average, although forty five percent of the men questioned admitted to wishing they could increase their penis size by an inch or two.
I should point out here that studies into penis size indicate that around ninety percent of men measure between five and seven inches in length when erect. As such, one can only assume that these eighty five percent of women were in most cases satisfied by a penis which fell within this average size range.
Another questionnaire reported in AskMen.com which involved two hundred women recorded similar results. According to the AskMen.com survey eighty two percent of the women questioned were content with an average sized penis of around six inches.
Interestingly however, this questionnaire also revealed that a minority of women did prefer a larger than average penis. Nine percent of the women said that their ideal penis measured seven to eight inches, whilst another two percent reported to prefer a massive ten to twelve inches.
This links in with a study into women’s perceptions of penis size conducted at the Department of Obstetrics and Gynaecology, Groningen University Hospital, Netherlands in 2002; which concluded that, ‘Although clearly in the minority, a nevertheless considerable percentage of women attached substantial importance to the size of the male sexual organ.’
So it seems that most women at least are content with a partner who has an average sized penis of around six inches. There are about ten percent of women however, who do prefer one of the ten percent of men who are lucky enough to have an erect penis length of over seven inches. But putting the minority aside, it seems that women in general are far less preoccupied with penis size than men and don’t necessarily agree that a bigger penis equates to better sex.
So if your anxieties over penis size are related to your perceived ability to sexually satisfy your partner, then you can at last breathe a sigh of relief. When it comes to being a good lover, sexual technique is far more important than having a big penis. Of course, regardless of this, as men we naturally equate the size of our penises to our masculinity; and as such, there’s no doubt that having a bigger penis can be the source of greater self confidence. But this is firmly a male perspective; woman at least it seems are quite happy with the average guy.
Many men are not happy with their current penis size. Judging by the growth of the enlargement market, many men are seriously searching for a good way to enlarge their current penis size. Sometimes, many problems faced during sex is because of the size of the penis. And their is no doubt that a bigger penis is one of the many ways to achieve success in bed.
One need not be told the benefit of having a bigger penis when it comes to sex. It's absolutely fantastic never to worry about sex again and to take it wherever and whenever it happens. This is the feeling you get when you do not have to think again about what the lady is going to say when she sees that you are not well-endowed. Having a bigger penis may not be the answer to all sexual problems, but it can be a very big advantage when used correctly.
However, lets not forget the psychological aspect of having a bigger penis. Who has got time to be shy around women when they are having that bulging crotch? There is nothing like a feeling of confidence that can be seen in the face of any man who is absolutely sure of his ability to charm women. No matter what type of experience one had ever had in the past, having a bigger penis can always make you feel like you can take on anything at anytime. And that is the kind of attitude a woman likes to see in a man. Only do not overdo it.
One of the big questions that men would love to know the final answer to is naturally, "Do women prefer a bigger penis or not?" The answer varies from woman to woman, but all men should know that many women tend to like bigger penises. And even there is any reason which is unlikely why any woman should not appreciate your bigger penis, that is no art to be a problem, you can always move on.
Having a bigger penis brings many benefits to its owner. Its important to be able to have and enjoy sex without having to worry about anything. Sex its suppose to be a positive thing in your life and not a cause of anxiety and constant depression and therefore should be enjoyed!